80s: Daughter-in-law Is Sweet and Sassy

Chu Qiao didn't think that Xiaobao liked beautiful things, so he would become a sissy. Although Xiaobao in the previous life was not a mighty man, he was not a sissy either, and his physical attributes were completely fine.

Of course, Han Shizhong's concerns are also correct. After all, at this time, there are not so many parenting books. The basic principle of raising children is—

Stick out a dutiful son!

On the basis of filial piety, men must be masculine and responsible, while women must be gentle and virtuous.

This is the simple parenting concept of the Chinese people today. There is no concept of raising the rich from the poor. They only raise their children on the principle of eating and drinking a lot and sticking a lot of sticks. Then, men can't become sissies, like putting on red lips. Curving eyebrows and wiping a pink face, if these appear on today's boys, they will definitely be maimed by the elders of the family.

It is better to maim this child than let him go out and disgrace his ancestors.

The same is true for girls. If they smoke, drink, fight, scold people and beat the table, they will be lazy and do nothing. They will have a big temper and will be slapped by their elders.

In the previous life, Chu Qiao met a lot of girls. Of course, she was good-looking, but she was not as beautiful as the country, and her education was acceptable. After all, there would be nine colleges for ten people on the street in the future.

The family background is also average, the ability is more average, the salary is only three or four thousand, even two or three thousand, but the girls' tone is not small, every day they shout "this girl is responsible for beauty and beauty, and the man is responsible for making money to support the family", which means getting married. Afterwards, women don't do anything, men not only have to make money, but also have to do housework, and they have to coax their aunt's wife who is in a bad mood at any time. .

As for giving birth, it also depends on the woman's mood, and she keeps saying that she is a feminist. In order to improve the status of women, Chu Qiao feels that she is just foolish. Face.

Equality between men and women is not achieved by temperament, but by ability. What a man can do, a woman can achieve by hard work, a man can be the president, a woman can also be the head of state, a man can be the richest man, women can be the same, men If you can be an astronaut, a woman can go to heaven.

This is true feminism.

[It's farther away, mainly because there are too many negative energy of female boxing on the Internet. The author is a woman, but she is very disgusted. Some women say, I will marry you and give you children. You make money to support me and I have to contract Housework is what it should be. It is really hard for a woman to give birth to a child, and it deserves everyone's respect. Men should pity the difficulty of giving birth to a woman, but this is not the reason why women put on airs. After forming a family, men and women share the responsibility of raising children and sharing housework. , Mortgage repayment together, consultation together in case of trouble, one is sick, the other is caring, mutual respect, mutual understanding and mutual understanding is the real equality between men and women, the author understands this way, do not spray]

Chu Qiao feels that although the current parenting concept is simple, it is very practical. At least it is more pleasing to the eye than a group of little fresh meats who can't tell their gender and who are beautifully called "Momada" on TV in the future.

However, some ideas are also wrong. Just like Xiaobao likes dolls, Han Shizhong and the others are wrong. As long as the parents guide them correctly, Xiaobao has no problem playing with dolls.

When Han Shizhong heard that it was researched by foreign scientists, he believed it even more. After all, at this time, foreigners were still very high-level in the hearts of Chinese people. A product with English letters can be sold for a lot of money.

"Do foreign scientists really say that?"

Chu Qiao nodded and said solemnly: "Of course, other countries let boys play with dolls, so why can't Xiaobao play."

"Won't it become a second chair (sissy)?"

Xu Sanqiang was still a little concerned, and Han Shizhong and the others also thought the same.

Chu Qiao smiled and comforted: "Of course not, the child's growth environment is the most important thing, Xiaobao plays with you every day, and must be influenced by you, you and Gu Ye are both radiant and masculine, how could Xiaobao be possible? It's absolutely impossible to become a sissy."

Gu Ye, Xu Sanqiang, and the others, involuntarily straightened their backs, with a smug expression on their faces, and completely dispelled their doubts. This is absolutely right. Playing with these mighty and majestic men every day will never become a second chair.

"My younger siblings are still highly educated and knowledgeable. In the future, I will buy toy guns for the two girls to play with. The little girls can't be too soft." Han Shizhong was moved by what he said.

The younger daughter is okay, bold and cheerful, but the eldest daughter has become introverted and timid since the accident. Han Shizhong was worried that the eldest daughter would be bullied when she grew up. Can you exercise the courage of a big girl?

Even if you don't get married in the future, as a girl lives in a family, you have to be bold and not afraid of things, otherwise you will be bullied to death.

Chu Qiao agreed very much, and suggested: "When this place is stable, take over the sister-in-law and the two children, let the children go to school in Shanghai, and let the girl practice some boxing and kung fu. Now there are many bad people in society, and the girl's family practice martial arts. self-defense."

She heard Gu Ye talk about Han Shizhong's eldest daughter. She was a poor little girl. She was born fine, but she was harmed by a quack doctor, and she didn't know if she could be cured.

She pointed to Dabao and said, "You can practice with Dabao in the future. Dabao's master is not bad."

Gu Ye found a martial arts master for Dabao. He practiced Sanda and won many awards internationally. His surname is Jiang, he is in his 40s, he is single, he has a daughter, and he is a sports school teacher. He has a few apprentices in private. Very bold.

Teaching children is also very attentive. Dabao has been studying with Master Jiang for almost a month, and he is full of energy. Every morning, he does not need to call Gu Ye, he gets up at 5:30 to practice martial arts, and he does not stay in bed on weekends, because Master Jiang says that he is a martial arts practitioner. , must not sleep late, must practice basic skills day after day~www.wuxiamtl.com~ Han Shizhong is even more moved. If the eldest girl knows kung fu, he will be at ease even if he closes his eyes, and he will definitely not be bullied.

"It's a good idea. When I earn money, I'll take over the three of them."

After Han Shizhong finished speaking, his expression became gloomy. Until now, a machine tool has not been sold.

Gu Ye immediately said: "Old Xu has a good start, and it will definitely get better and better in the future. I think the three of you are getting too fast. I am a golden mouth, and I can't be wrong."

"Haha, borrow your auspicious words, let's go!"

Han Shizhong quickly regained his spirits and could not be discouraged. He also felt that good days were coming.

He was the oldest, with average ability, and even less eloquence, but he could endure hardships. One factory after another came to sell, and he didn't believe that no one would not buy it. Han Shizhong decided to sell machine tools in a stupid way.

Everyone clinked glasses and shared what happened recently when they sold machine tools. Bao Fushan said the least, he always listened to others, and only said a few words after asking him, "I'm investigating, and after finding out the situation, there should be no problem. ."