First Marriage Then Love (Mr. Mayor Please Be Kind)

"I'm not sad. The fact that she made such a choice shows that she is not suitable to be my wife..." Seeing Zhao Qiliang's discomfort, Zhang Ping quickly explained, "I am telling you this just to let you know. Compare her to your wife.”

Zhao Qiliang solemnly thanked Zhang Ping: "Thank you, I understand your good intentions, and I will definitely not let you down."

Zhang Ping became embarrassed and said: "Captain Zhao, I just thought of the past and expressed my feelings. I didn't want to expose my own scars to remind you."

Zhao Qiliang smiled and nodded: "I know, but no man is willing to do this kind of thing before others. If it wasn't to help me, you wouldn't say it even if it was out of your feelings."

"That's not the case. When I didn't think about it before, I didn't want to mention it at all. Now that I've gone through so many things, I've lived a clear life. There's nothing I can't say."

"Were you two introduced to each other?" Zhao Qiliang asked.

"No..." Zhang Ping shook his head, "She and I grew up together. We were classmates in elementary school and junior high school. At that time, our academic performance was about the same. Either she was first or I was first. My family was poor, and her family was poor. We were also poor, and the two of us were the worst-dressed and worst-fed in school.

Fortunately, our studies gave us points, and no one looked down upon us. However, this also resulted in both of us having a somewhat cold temperament. On the surface, we looked quite arrogant, but in our hearts, we were worried about being exposed to others. joke.

I don’t know when, we both started to care about each other, and then we were both recommended to high school. After she graduated from high school, she was assigned to work in a factory thanks to one of her aunts.

At that time, her family did not want us to interact with each other. However, my uncle happened to bring me to the city, so the objections were suppressed.

My dream since childhood was to be a soldier, so when I saw the recruitment notice, I secretly took the military examination without telling my family. I didn’t tell my family until the results came out.

Although my parents were a little reluctant because my uncle had to go through a lot of trouble to find a job for me, they finally agreed to my wish because they knew my dream since childhood.

After the problem at home was resolved, I discussed it with her again. Then, she was about to break up with me, saying that I didn't respect her and didn't consider our future. Being in the military for three years is simply selfish.

During that time, we were in a very tense situation. No matter how much I discussed it, she ignored me. Later, it was me who told her that if I became a soldier and I would go on to take the military academy exam, I would definitely be more successful than being a worker, so she finally stopped talking to me. There's a fuss.

As a result, the military academy had not yet resumed enrollment in the first two years of my service, and they had to be elected. How could this be possible based on my qualifications? It was finally time to resume enrollment last year, but this kind of crisis happened again.

Although I really want to enter the military academy, why does a man become a soldier? Therefore, I made the decision to go to the front line first and then enter the military academy. Because of this, she and I completely broke up.

To be honest, at first I thought she and I were having trouble and just let it go. After all, we grew up together and have such a deep emotional foundation. ‘

Unfortunately, I was too naive. Half a month after she broke up with me, she fell in love with a team leader in their factory. She had been interested in her before, but she didn't agree when I was around. No, as soon as the position was vacated, it was filled by that person.

Now that I knew she had found her own happiness, I stopped writing to her. Later, my sister wrote to me and told me that she was married.

After I left the factory, my sister took my place. We were very close to her factory, and we would occasionally run into each other. She and my sister used to be friends, but after they separated, we didn't have much contact with each other.

My sister told me that neither I nor her could be blamed for this matter. After all, it is impossible for a girl in her twenties to gamble with her youth.

In fact, I know that my sister said this just to comfort me. She didn't want me to live in hatred, and she didn't want my future life to be affected by that relationship.

My sister, I really think too much, or there are times when I can’t think about it, but after all, I am an adult man, how can I really just ignore everything?

She is a woman who is afraid of trouble, change, and danger. She wants a stable life, but as a soldier, it is difficult for me to meet her requirements.

Even if we really got married, we would still have conflicts in the future. Indispensable, there were still a few soldiers in our camp at that time, and they were just like me. As soon as the family got the news and knew that they were going on a mission, the woman would Broken engagement.

So Battalion Commander Zhao, we all know about you and Director Zhou, and we all envy you. Maybe you think the chance of this is quite high, but for us, the chance is basically zero.

Anyway, there are a few partners in our camp, some of whom were promiscuous at the time, and some who were promiscuous later. Now, they are all single again. Unlike you, who have a wife and children, you are so happy. "

In order to convince himself that this was enough work, he not only compared his own past, but also compared it with others. Zhao Qiliang looked at Zhang Ping with a grateful face, and really didn't know what to say.

"It's okay. I've been holding it in for too long. I want to find someone to talk to. After all, only people with the same experience can talk about this kind of thing. By the way, how did Battalion Commander Zhao and my sister-in-law know each other? of?"

"We have known each other since childhood."

Zhang Ping had a look of surprise on his face: "That's really a coincidence."

"But I'm older than her, and I'm different from you..." After a pause, when Zhang Ping didn't answer, Zhao Qiliang continued, "My wife and my cousin are good friends. When I was young, I often went to my house with my cousin. Play at home.

In fact, I always treated her as a child and really never thought about it. Even when she grew up to be a big girl, I never thought about it. After all, I am several years older than her.

Until I received her letter, she told me straightforwardly that she fell in love with me and didn't want anyone else to get the first advantage, so she told me first that if she wanted to take over, I wouldn't be allowed to have sex with other women. good.

It was a very domineering statement, but it moved me. We got engaged through that visit home, and not long after that, she also went to City A and became a soldier.

Later, her development was smoother than mine. For a while, I was very unconfident. Especially after my sister got married, I felt that if my sister could find a husband as capable as my brother-in-law, maybe my wife would too. Will have other thoughts.

Because of my lack of self-confidence, we had a very unhappy time. Fortunately, my wife is a generous woman. She finally forgave me, and when she learned that I was going on a mission, she took the initiative to Got married.

Based on her conditions, if she wasn't with me, she would definitely be able to find someone better than me, but she didn't. In this life, I really owe her too much. No matter what happens, I will never do it. I'm sorry about what happened to her. "

"If I had known that you two had this kind of relationship, I wouldn't have said anything more..." Zhang Ping stroked his forehead, "I'm just looking for trouble. What's the difference between our feelings?"

"It's because of my passive personality."

"My personality is not very proactive..." After a pause, Zhang Ping said, "Don't mention it, she was the first to take the initiative in the relationship between me and Lu Caixia. After all, we are really similar. However, your wife's personality, Lu Caixia's character is different, so our ending is completely different.

In other words, your wife is the kind of woman who can share both adversity and wealth, but Lu Caixia is the kind of woman who can only share wealth but not adversity.

When she first took the initiative, she didn't take a fancy to me. She just felt that our conditions were similar and she wanted to find someone to hug each other for warmth. When her conditions improved, if I was still the same as before, she would separate from me immediately.

However, before she could take action, my uncle helped me, so..." Zhang Ping spread his hands, "There is really nothing to regret about what happened between us. If it doesn't collapse this time, it will happen sooner or later. It will collapse. "

"I agree with this." Zhao Qiliang nodded, "It is her loss that she is separated from you. One day, she will regret the decision she made. For such a utilitarian woman, a man who is willing to marry her may not be able to survive. How sincere."

After hesitating, Zhang Ping looked at Zhao Qiliang and asked, "What would you think if I said, don't talk to her like this? I hope she lives a happy life?"

"This is normal. We have different starting points. You are thinking about our past friendship, and I am expressing my opinions only because of you. Therefore, even if you really say this, I will not think you are hypocritical."

Sighing, Zhang Ping smiled bitterly: "Then I'd better tell you what I really think. I don't want to bless her, and I won't curse her. I just want her to live her life and me to live my life, that's all. "

"Men are quite generous in this regard. Basically, women..." Zhao Qiliang shook his head, looked at the woman walking towards him, and said, "To be precise, some women are very good at this kind of thing. It’s extremely annoying, like coming here now.”

When they got closer, Ye Meiru looked at the two of them in confusion: "What big thing has happened, and you two are still required to stand guard here?"

"You should know, right?" Zhao Qiliang looked at her lightly, but what he said was not polite at all, "You don't know who is coming today. Isn't it fun to pretend to be confused?"

"Oh..." Ye Meiru slapped her forehead fiercely, "I really forgot about this matter, okay okay, then I won't bother you now. Please tell Mr. Zhou later that I have looked for him. When it's convenient for him, he can call me over. I really have something serious to discuss with him." r1152

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