First Marriage Then Love (Mr. Mayor Please Be Kind)

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The first update, followed by the second update.

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Everyone would make a fuss when talking in the same room, so after a few friendly words with the elders, Chu Xia and Luo Xiaoqiong followed Zhao Qihui to the West Room to talk.

There was a thick pile of books placed on the kang in the west room. Chu Xia picked up a few books and said with a smile: Sister, do you spend all the rest of your time reading besides eating and sleeping?

almost. Zhao Qihui smiled sheepishly. Last time, I was more than 20 points away from my first choice. Jiang Wenyuan was too late. If I don’t work harder, I will still be in doubt this year.

Chu Xia poked her head forward in a gossipy manner: Sister, what do you mean, has the candidate for my brother-in-law been officially determined?

No. Zhao Qihui shook his head. If I can't get into the ideal university, it's impossible to be sure.

Luo Xiaoqiong frowned: Is it his?

No, he didn't, but... Sighing, Zhao Qihui smiled bitterly and said, didn't I always go to his house to ask him questions before? At that time, his father and mother were very enthusiastic towards me, and they were always testing me whether I could be with Jiang Wenyuan, both in words and in words.

Later, when I was notified after the exam, I felt that he had helped me so much. No matter whether I did worse than him or not, I should go and congratulate him. As a result, his parents were very cold when they saw me. I didn’t react for a while, and even I thought they were feeling sorry for me and comforted them. I will take the exam again next year and it will be fine.

When going home. He came to see me off, and his mother asked him to help with the work. No matter how stupid I was, I understood. After that, I never went to his house again.

Before going to report, he came to me. He liked me and asked me to work hard. I will try to get into college next year. He will be waiting for me on the college campus.

Then I asked him if I couldn't pass the exam and he didn't like me anymore. He told me no, he came out. My self-esteem is very strong. If I didn't pass the exam, I would be with him. He probably wouldn't be happy, so he hoped that I could stand as tall as him.

Went to school. He writes me a letter every half month. They are all interesting anecdotes from college, and some of the solutions to difficult problems he thought of are also listed above for me.

Later, he asked me to write down the questions I couldn't solve on a letter, and he would write the correct answer to me when he next wrote back.

truth. Without his help, I would have no confidence in my persistence, but now, I feel that I will basically have no problem this year.

do you like him? Chu Xia asked.

Be silent for a while. Zhao Qihui said: "I should like it."

How can we use the word ‘should’? Luo Xiaoqiong sighed, sister. You have to think about whether you like it or not.

If you like it, then you should be prepared to go to the same school as him, or another school, but you can give him the right answer. It is you, Zhao Qihui, who has identified him.

If you're just thanking him for helping you and you don't like him from the bottom of your heart, then you'd better not go to the same school as him and slowly fade away the relationship, so that everyone can look better.

Quite thoughtful! Chu Xia poked Luo Xiaoqiong and said to Zhao Qihui, "Sister, I agree with Xiaoqiong's opinion. If his family is so snobbish, you will inevitably be troubled in the future if you marry him."

Luo Xiaoqiong echoed: Yes, no matter whether you are better or worse than him in the exam, his family will think that you relied on him to get into college. You are marrying him because you are a high-ranking person. Don't blame me for thinking too much about others. Too bad, it’s their behavior that makes me think so.

Zhao Qihui looked at the two of them seriously: From what you said, do you think you don't agree with this marriage?

No, no, no... Chu Xia waved her hands repeatedly. Our opinions are not important. What is important is your own inner feelings. We are not afraid that you may feel inaccurate and mislead yourself.

Luo Xiaoqiong quickly answered: Yes, we are here to serve as a reminder. You have to figure out the key issues yourself. Also, you have to think about whether Jiang Wenyuan's attitude towards you has determined that you are the only one. This is very important. important.

Yes, if he decides that you are the one who must do it, the attitude of his family is not important, because you can't go back to the village, and you won't have much contact with his family in the future, right?

This is the truth, you and Captain Zhou are like this in Chu Xia, because Captain Zhou must be Chu Xia, so no one dares to bully her when she marries into the Zhou family in Chu Xia.

Chu Xia was speechless and said to Luo Xiaoqiong: Why is this happening to me? Are my sister's matter and my matter the same thing?

Although it's not the same thing, the situation is similar. If Captain Zhou hadn't been so determined, do you think the Zhou family would have accepted you so easily?

You know, at that time, no one knew about Uncle Baohe's life experience. You were an ordinary rural girl. I don't say this well, but that's the fact, right?

Take me again, it was me who won the first prize, Zhao Qiliang. If you hadn't helped with the matchmaking, it would have been impossible for him to choose me. However, I still dared to stay with him unswervingly.

The reason is very simple. I have been to the Zhao family with you before, and I know the character of this family. I know that they are not snobbish people and will not look down on me because of this.

So Sister Qihui, I am taking what happened between me and Chu Xia as an example to tell you that either the man is determined enough or the husband's family is good enough, otherwise, you have to make other plans in advance.

Zhao Qihui knew about Chu Xia and Zhou Mixang.

Zhao Qihui also knew about Luo Xiaoqiong and Zhao Qiliang.

Therefore, when Luo Xiaoqiong compared the two people's affairs, she was also thinking seriously.

Although she is older than Chu Xia and Luo Xiaoqiong, she must admit that she doesn't seem to understand as well as the two of them emotionally.

First of all, Jiang Wenyuan’s family cannot compare with her parents, so Luo Xiaoqiong’s example cannot be replicated in her own body.

Then, she can only consider Jiang Wenyuan's feelings for her.

Looking back on the communication and interaction between the two, it seems that they are more like a teacher and a student. Even when they are together, the other person and her are always learning and learning.

On the third day after Jiang Wenyuan came back from winter vacation, he came to see her. After politely greeting the family, he began to test her with questions. Because she answered a very simple geometry question wrong, she was scolded to death.

Grandpa and grandma are leaning towards Jiang Wenyuan. He is doing it for her own good, and strict teachers produce good students.

Yes, a strict teacher produces a good disciple, which is indeed useful for her learning, but her feelings for him seem to be filled with an increasing percentage of fear.

Thinking about this, she said seriously to her sister and sister-in-law: "It seems that he is not the same as you. His parents can't be like my parents, and he can't treat me like Captain Zhou did to Chu Xia."

Chu Xia had a black line: Sister, this can't be a complete copy. Although Xiaoqiong's statement is reasonable, how can there be such an exact same thing in the world?

And I don’t agree with Luo Xiaoqiong’s statement that my brother didn’t care about her words. Yes, she took the initiative at first, but later, it was all my brother who took the initiative, okay?

Given my brother's personality, it is impossible for him to defend someone as domineeringly as Zhou Mikang. And the Jiang Wenyuan that my sister is meeting now should have a personality that is different from both my brother's and Zhou Mikang's. So he must have his own way of getting along with his sister.

Sister, think carefully about whether you feel at ease when you are with him, and whether you really look forward to living with him every day in the future. As for his family... By the way, sister, how many brothers and sisters does he have?

He has an older brother and an older sister, and a younger brother and younger sister. The older brother and older sister are all married, the younger brother will get married next year, and the younger sister has not found her husband yet.

There are so many children... Chu Xia stroked her forehead, Sister, you have to think about it now. If such a college student comes out of this kind of family, the whole family will definitely be watching.

If you really succeed, you will definitely not be burdened. I am not saying that children should not be filial to their parents. What I mean is that sometimes excessive filial piety will definitely exhaust you to death.

To use an analogy, my brother's child is sick, my sister's house is about to be built, something happened to my brother's family, my sister needs to solve a job, my parents are not feeling well, my relatives are asking for help... ..., I will ask you for help as a matter of course.

If you don't help, you will be ungrateful. If you help, your life and your future brother-in-law's life will become a mess, and there will be problems with your children's education.

When you give birth to a child, if you take care of it by yourself and cannot go to work and are kept at home, you won’t feel at ease if you give it to your mother-in-law and father-in-law. You also don’t feel at ease if you give it to your uncle and aunt because you are afraid that your mother-in-law and father-in-law won’t want to take care of it.

Anyway, these messy things are definitely inevitable. You must think about them in advance now, otherwise, when it comes true, you will be worried to death.

Luo Xiaoqiong looked at Chu Xia with a surprised look on her face: I, why do you think so much? You were very honest, as if you had experienced it, Xia, please don’t scare people like this, okay?

Chu Xia gave her a blank look: Get out! You can think about these problems if you use your brain, so why do you have to experience them yourself before you can come up with them?

Luo Xiaoqiong said unconvinced: I didn't think of it, and neither did Sister Qihui.

You grew up in Futunzi, so of course you wouldn't have thought of it. My sister is a fan of the authorities. If it were anyone else, she would have thought of it a long time ago.

Zhao Qihui looked at Chu Xia bitterly: Xia, let you do this, why do I think that my future with him is all gloomy?

It won't be all gloomy, as long as you have the courage to bear all this. Of course, my statement may be a bit exaggerated. As expected, it is inevitably a bit exaggerated, right?

Zhao Qihui's face twitched even more fiercely: "Your exaggeration has completely destroyed my confidence."

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