132. Chapter 132 is secluded

    'Walking with me side by side, for those who are so temperamental, it is obviously a bitter thing. '——《The Man in a Case》

    Human beings are themselves a group of living things.

    Some scholars in Western countries even classify 'unsocial and non-social' with anti-social personality.

    Because this is a pathological manifestation in itself.

    Solitude is different from loneliness.

    Lonely people are eager to socialize with others, not to be bored with anyone, or even to be alert to everyone.

    Lonely people are a kind of personality defect. They usually look at themselves very high and show a look of despising people. However, their hearts are extremely weak, they are afraid of being stabbed and therefore do not want to associate with others.

    When you have to interact with people, the lonely people will also appear strange, strange and artificial, always giving people a feeling of nervousness.

    They are actually very pitiful. They don't necessarily have antisocial psychology or violent tendencies, but they will definitely feel autistic, lost, inferior, nervous, and depressed…

    I can't communicate with people properly, which makes them more like to be alone and away from home.

    The formation of an isolated personality, congenital factors are not many, mainly due to the negative impact of various subjective and objective environments, resulting in a long-term depression in the state of depression.

    For example, if Niannian continues this way, when she goes to elementary school, she is likely to be excluded from classmates because she has not learned to communicate with her peers. She is treated as an alternative by classmates.

    A little girl who only talks to cats all day, don't tell me not enough weird?

    The survey results show that about 5% to 8% of the primary and secondary school students will be very lonely.

    And this is already an extremely exaggerated number.

    Within twenty people, there will be a lonely individual.

    The class is a group, and the unsociable children are always unable to integrate into the group, so that they are more likely to be ridiculed, ridiculed, crowded and accused by classmates.

    This situation will gradually decrease as the child's age increases.

    But this process is extremely long for poor children who are lonely.

    They will endure all kinds of psychological pressures, but in the end they will only become a stepping stone for the growth process of others.

    After many years, who will remember the freak that was ridiculed and teased in the class?

    Who will care about it, is that freak now okay?

……

    Chen Xi is panicked.

    After all, he still has no way to cure mental illness.

    So after careful consideration, he quickly negotiated with Qin Ruoying: "Would you like…Send Niannian to kindergarten? ”

    Hear this, Qin Ruoying nodded immediately.

    She also has this idea.

    Although Qin Ruoying wants to spend more time with Niannian, it is still cautious in order to make Niannian's healthy and happy environment.

    As long as it involves children, any parent will become particularly sorrowful, even if there is only a little bit of possibility, they should also annihilate the possibility in time.

    The couple reached a consensus, so Chen Xi sat next to the arrived little guy.

    "Niannian, is Father talking to you about it?"

    "Yeah?"

    The little guy was busy watching Anime, and Chen Xi just blocked her sight when she came over.

    After a bang, she lay down on the bed and continued to look at Anime.

    Upon seeing it, Chen Xi said seriously: "Niannian, Father is talking to you!"

    "Yeah?"

    The little guy’s eyes were full of doubts. After he glanced at Chen Xi, he muttered: “Papa, you blocked me!”

    "Father talks to you, you pause first, or Father will be angry with Oh.

    Oh

    Chen Xi is obviously still a bit weighty in the minds of the little guys.

    Therefore, after hesitating for a moment, she obediently took the remote control and pressed the pause, then sat up very well.

    "Papa, you said!"

    Seeing that the little guy was so well-behaved, Chen Xi nodded very satisfied, then gently took her to her arms and asked seriously: "Niannian, do you want to go to kindergarten?"

    However, after the little guy heard his question, he didn't even think about it. He immediately turned his little head to a rattle.

    No! I don't want to go to kindergarten! ”

    This is obviously something that Chen Xi's expected, so he quickly asked: "Why? Didn't you like kindergarten very much before? ”

    Hear this, the little guy yelled and replied loudly: "I don't like kindergarten!"

    Perhaps to show his attitude, the little guy even repeatedly shouted: "I don't like kindergarten! Don't like it

    She did not follow the common sense, and suddenly confused Chen Xi.

    It used to be that she wanted to go. Now she suddenly doesn't want to go. It has become too fast.

    No way, Chen Xi had to patiently persuade: "Niannian, the kindergarten is very fun, the teacher teaches you to draw, wears a small safflower for you, and the classmates accompany you to play games, why not want to go?"

    When I heard Chen Xi say this, the little guy exploded in an instant.

    I don't know why, she suddenly made a mistake.

    After seeing her push the arm of Chen Xi's, she rolled up and left in the bed, and kept whispering in her mouth: "I don't want to go!" I do not want to go! I don't like kindergarten! ”

    Chen Xi is stunned.

    Niannian was the time to become like this?

    This is simply little devil!

    Don't tell me Is there really a problem with his education method?

    I remember the moment he had just returned, Niannian was awkward, obedient and sensible.

    How long has he brought Niannian?

    I will raise the child like this…

    Thinking of this, Chen Xi can't help but fall into deep reflection.

    Seeing that the little guy was worried, Qin Ruoying also sat on her side.

    After gently lifting the little guy up, she patiently asked: "Niannian, can tell us, why don't you want to go to kindergarten?"

    After hearing this question, the little guy stumbled.

    But then, she burst into tears with a 'wow'.

    This time, Qin Ruoying was also panicked, and quickly took her to her arms and comforted it.

    "Niannian don't cry, you don't want to go, Father and Mother won't force you, but you have to tell us why you don't want to go?"

    The little guy crying is a miserable.

    Chen Xi saw her and quickly went to the bathroom to get her a hot towel.

    The couple’s concerted efforts made it impossible for the little guy to cry.

    After a while, the little guy was sobbing and pouting, very aggrieved: "I don't want to go to kindergarten, I want to be with Papa and Mama…"

    Hear this, Qin Ruoying can't help but look at Chen Xi and instantly understand the reason.

    This poor child…

    It used to be brought up by Aunt Zhang alone, and Father and Mother have never been around her.

    Therefore, when the little guy re-owned Father and Mother, she would not be separated from them anymore.

    And this is obviously the root cause of her recent frequent slanders.

    Since the children have said this, the kindergarten is obviously unable to go.

    Qin Ruoying thought about Niannian for a while and suddenly said to Chen Xi: "Or, let's change the way?"

    "what way?"

    "If you look at this cold day, there are not a few parents who will bring their children out to play…"

    "Niannian is not willing to go to kindergarten. It is definitely not a way to go on like this…"

    "Or else, let's do it…"

    “We open a bookstore, or a shop like a restaurant or a coffee shop, so that Niannian can reach a lot of strangers…”

    Hear this, Chen Xi suddenly shines.


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