King’s House Kindergarten

Chapter 144: parenting ally

The general's wife just listened to Shen Yue's words, while secretly clenched Zig.

For Mrs. General today, it is not only a kindergarten experience, but also a test for Zig to make no mistakes.

She and Qi Yun are here, and Qi Ge is still like this. It's hard for Shen Yue not to think about how Qi Ge will be turned upside down in the kindergarten if they are not there!

After all, it is the Wangfu Kindergarten. Shen Yue must first take care of the children of the Wangfu before taking care of Qige.

Zig is not easy to manage, and doesn't listen to anyone. When the general is so angry that he wants to beat him, the old lady always protects her, saying that she is reluctant to say heavy words, and if she wants to beat her, beat her first.

It is difficult for the general's wife to be caught in the middle, so it is better than the general's mansion to let Ziger temporarily leave the house and manage it in the Wangfu kindergarten. Therefore, what the General's wife was worried about was that Qig had left a bad impression in Shen Yue's heart.

Shen Yue thought about the children of the palace, and finally declined Zig.

But as soon as she arrived at the mansion, she was already making a fuss, so I won't say it. Judging from her appearance, she should have been dishonest, but she didn't frighten Shen Yue. Right now, the general's wife can't get over her face.

Run and roll on the lawn like a wild horse...

The general's wife was really afraid that Shen Yue would reject their runaway little wild horse.

Shen Yue smiled comfortably and said, "Don't worry, Madam General, in the future, as long as no one brings enough three to four sets of clothes for the children, it will be fine to have more than four sweat towels for replacement. We have prepared school bags and sweat towels, and we will prepare them later. Please green onion to bring it to you."

The General's wife thought she had heard it wrong.

Shen Yue continued, "Children play crazy, it's hard not to sweat when they are outdoors, and they won't rub on a layer. If their sweat towel is wet, we will remind them to change the sweat towel; if the clothes sweat a lot, Or dirty, we will change their clothes in time to avoid the cold. Of course, also prepare Zig's water glasses, outdoor activities and work in the classroom, we will remind them to drink water every once in a while."

The general's wife nodded and smiled guiltily.

Shen Yue didn't seem to dislike Chiger, but told her that they would try to prevent their children from contracting colds and diseases...

The general's wife was a little shocked, but soon, she remembered what Qi Yun said, Shen Yue was very patient with children. The general's wife had met Zhuo Tian, ​​the fifth son of Prince Pingyuan's mansion. This is also a person who will cause trouble everywhere. Right now, it seems that he has never heard of another trouble.

Shen Yue asked the general's wife again, "By the way, ma'am, I asked Mrs. Tao Bo to mention it before. When you enter the park to experience, you can bring a piece of clothes for Zigdo. Does madam bring it today?"

"Yes." The general's wife looked at Zhao's mother on the side.

Zhao's mother has been carrying it.

Shen Yue agrees.

Then, he stepped forward again, squatted on the lawn, looked at Zig the little wild horse who was rolling on the ground, and said warmly, "Rolling on the lawn is a matter of April, it's still too cold now, should we go to the sand pool to play? ?"

Hearing the sand pool, Zig really sat up with a "swoosh", "Can you really go?"

After he finished speaking, he looked back at Shen Yue, his mother.

Shen Yue nodded, "Of course, Mrs. General brought you clothes. After we play in the sand area, you can change your clothes."

"That's great! Thank you, mother!" Zig looked at his mother in surprise, and the general's wife felt a little embarrassed.

Shen Yue reached out, "Come on, I'll take you there."

Zig also smiled and stretched out his hand.

It wasn't long since he came to kindergarten, and Ziger was already willing to be with Shen Yue.

Before going to the sand pit, Shen Yue led Zig to squeeze the sand with his hands, and then told him the precautions in the sand area and slides.

Zig couldn't help but want to play, Shen Yue said anything.

"This is the rule agreed upon between us, can Ayue trust you?" Shen Yue stretched out her hand.

Zig gave her a high five, "Got it!"

Seeing Siege jumping into the sand area, the general's wife felt a little bad.

But Qi Yun told her that it was all right, all the children in the house were like this.

You Qi Yun looked at Zig.

Shen Yue sat down with the general's wife on the seat on the side of the sand area, and watched Ziger go crazy on the slide while talking.

Shen Yue still understands the basic situation of Qige at home first, and also asks some basic questions.

More of a conversation.

In the mansion on weekdays, the old lady is very strong, and the general's wife is not good at contradicting her old man. Therefore, when Shen Yue asked the general's wife the problem she encountered, the general's wife seemed to open a chat box, "Gezi belongs to me and the general. The only son is also the only child in the mansion. The old lady is too arrogant. Neither the general nor I want to be too spoiled. In the future, the general's mansion will mostly be inherited from the father's business. Such spoiled children will be somewhat lawless in Beijing, and I am afraid they will become more and more in the future. I don't have self-discipline, so I want to send Grid to the kindergarten, at least, to leave the environment at home for more time."

When the General's wife said this, Shen Yue understood.

Just right, Zigzheng said, "Hahaha, uncle, look."

Sliding down the slide upside down, very courageous.

Shen Yue stood up and reminded warmly, "Zig, we agreed on the rules, we can't do this, it's easy to hurt ourselves, if we don't follow the rules, we can't play in the sand area."

The general's wife also looked at Zig.

Zig said quickly, "I'm sorry, I forgot."

The general's wife and Zhao's mother were surprised.

Shen Yue didn't quarrel, didn't shout, but Ziger actually obeyed.

When Shen Yue turned back, the general's wife looked at her with more certainty.

Shen Yue continued to say to the general's wife, "Then he said that the child also has certain social attributes. In other words, the appearance of the child at home is not necessarily what he looks like in front of other children, it may be completely different. They will try to get along with each other. Adapting to the other party's communication style, getting in with the other party, and learning the necessary accommodation and courtesy, which are encountered in kindergarten. Compared with deliberately old-fashioned exercises, in the actual environment, the child's personal experience is more direct. "

The general's wife nodded again and again.

Shen Yue continued, "For example, if he hurts others, others will not play with him, unlike his grandmother at home, and the servants are not easy to speak; at the same time, when he wants to join others, he must also ask for the consent of others. , these subtle behaviors will be reversed, and subtly into life, he will try to get the consent of the family to do some things one after another."

The general's wife couldn't help but look up, "If that's the case, that's really great."

Zigxiong couldn't control it at home, and the old lady wouldn't let it, so what Shen Yue said just now was on the general's wife's heart.

Seeing that Zig was sweating, Shen Yue concluded, "So, we will keep a short record every day, the children's daily life in the kindergarten, and the things worth paying attention to; every once in a while, we will communicate with the general's wife to Zig. The situation in kindergarten and at home can be coordinated with each other, and home-school co-education.”

The General's wife could not be more satisfied.

The only thing she worried about was that the grid was here, and the family didn't know anything. The old lady was afraid that she would not be able to stay, but Shen Yue solved her problem.

Speaking of this, Shen Yue just got up and stepped forward, and said with Zig, who was playing crazy in the sand area, "Zig, it's our appointment time, Ayue will take you to change your clothes, let's go to another fun place! "

Because Shen Yue hadn't lied to him earlier, even though Ziger had not known Shen Yue for a long time, he believed in Shen Yue.

Although a little reluctant, he got up.

Shen Yue took his hand, went to the sink to wash her hands, and then roughly patted the fine sand on her body before taking Zig to the dressing room to change clothes.

Outside the sand area, Qi Yun stepped forward, "Sister-in-law, don't worry, Shen Yue can take care of Grid."

When Qi Yun said these words earlier, the general's wife was still thinking of being a live horse doctor, and it would be better if the old lady could listen to it. Now, her mood is different, and she suddenly feels that Shen Yue can really teach each other well. .

In the locker room, Zig giggled with laughter.

I could see just now that Shen Yue knew how to communicate with children, even better than her mother.

Coming out of the locker room, Shen Yue was holding Zig all the time, and Zig cooperated very well.

"The place where we are now is the outdoor activity area. We still spend most of the day in the classroom. There are also many interesting teaching aids in the classroom that you have not seen before. Would you like to take a look together?" Shen Yue asked with a smile.

"Okay." Sieg sounded reluctant, but his eyes clearly wanted to go.

In the classroom, Shen Yue took Zig to get to know the divisions of the classroom. Zig was interested in the tool area, which was the place where the lock and the Ding Mao structure made up. Every mini door switch and wardrobe structure made Zig Can't help but want to explore.

The general's wife watched from the side. Later, Cong Qing and Qi Yun continued to familiarize themselves with different areas, and Shen Yue communicated with the general's wife near the dining table about the child's arrangement in the kindergarten.

All the furnishings here are convenient for children, and children can realize at a glance that this is a place specially prepared for them. On the contrary, adults have to adapt to the place of children.

After reading the daily schedule with Shen Yue, it is rich in basic learning, discussion, own work, naps, breaks, and outdoor activities. Every day in the kindergarten is arranged to be full and full, and there should be no time or energy for it. Bear too.

The general's wife seemed to see the dawn.

Shen Yue added, "If Mrs. General's time allows, you can send Zig to the kindergarten every morning, or you can come to the kindergarten to pick up Zig every day. First, it can make the child have a full sense of ritual every day; second Come, this is also the parent-child time for Mrs. General and Zig. The lady can ask Zig what he expects before going to the kindergarten on the way to pick up the kindergarten, and whether he has met new people in the kindergarten when he picks up Zig back to the house. My friends, if you have any happy things to share with the general's wife, this will help to build a parent-child relationship."

The General's wife couldn't help nodding her head. She had never thought about it like that before, but when Shen Yue said it, it seemed that she suddenly understood. This is her time with Grid, which will not only shorten the distance, but also make Grid look forward to her every day.

The General's wife suddenly felt that Shen Yue also made her start to re-examine herself.

...

At the end of the experience, General Shen Yue's wife and Zig arrived at the gate.

The general's wife was holding Zigg.

Shen Yue squatted down halfway and was as tall as Siege, "What are you going to do when you leave the kindergarten? We just said."

Although Zig was a little impatient, he still said, "Understood, goodbye Ayue!"

"Goodbye Zig, Ayue is waiting for you in kindergarten~"

Hearing Shen Yue's words, Zig suddenly laughed again.

Shen Yue got up and said to the general's wife, "It will take a few days to make the school uniform for the kindergarten. When it's done, the children will all wear school uniforms to participate in extracurricular activities. When the school uniforms are ready, I'll give them to Zig and let him put them on. Bring it back in your bag."

"Okay." The general's wife responded.

Shen Yue didn't send it off again, just watched the general's wife leave.

Cong Qing sighed, "This young master of the Qi family is so arrogant. Compared to him, the fifth son is much more sensible..."

Shen Yue smiled, Xiao Wu was watching because Zhuo Yuan was watching. In Fuzhong, Zhuo Yuan was the biggest parent. In other words, the concept of parenting in Fuzhong was the same, and no one would argue against Zhuo Yuan, so Xiao Wu Instead it will be better.

But in the General's Mansion, the situation was different.

The parents and grandmothers have completely different parenting concepts, and conflicts are inevitable. And when there is a conflict, there is filial piety, and it is inevitable that the concept of the grandmother's generation will be the biggest.

Therefore, it is not like before the time-travel, parents can call the shots.

Most of the children are shrewd and blessed by their grandmothers, and even if their parents want to change the status quo, they will struggle. Zig's situation is completely different from that of Xiao Wu.

As long as the old lady doesn't think that Zig is wrong, and that Zig's actions are just naughty children, it will be difficult for the general and the general's wife to change Zig, especially the old lady's concept.

The concept of the old lady can only be changed by children.

"Let's go, let's discuss about Qige." Shen Yuechao was green.

Green onions should be fine.

...

The carriage returned from the Pingyuan Palace to the General's Palace, and the old lady asked carefully, "Da Gezi, is this kindergarten good?"

The old lady is actually not very hopeful.

What the old lady wants is for her precious grandson to learn to escape. As for the other things, the old lady does not dare to be interested, nor does she want to be separated from her eldest grandson for too long every day. So the questions are clearly directed.

Who knows, Zig said, "Okay! I have to go!"

The old lady was surprised.

Zig smiled and said, "There is a sand area, there are slides, grandma, I have been playing for a long time! It is very fun, much more fun than at home."

The old lady frowned, "Play with you?"

Zig nodded.

The old lady suddenly became unhappy, "Isn't it sent to learn something? It's not right to teach the children to play and let the children stay here all day."

The old lady didn't want Zig to go so long every day...

The general's wife was rarely silent.

Zig frowned, "Who said that! Kindergarten has something to learn, Ayue told me that there should be study time every day, there are teachers, there are discussion classes, there are work and outdoor activities, not only Play! I'm going!"

"..." The general's wife smiled in her heart. This scene is really unique and rare.

"Go, go, go! Grandma didn't tell you not to go!" Seeing that her grandson was unhappy, the old lady of the Qi family suddenly softened.

The general's wife said, "The day after the class starts, I will send Grid to the kindergarten every day, and then go to the kindergarten to pick up Grid back after school."

The old lady was stunned for a while, "You have to run twice a day? Wouldn't it be better to have someone pick it up?"

The general's wife smiled and said, "Mother, the palace is indeed a strange environment. If I come to pick up Grid, Grid will also get used to it. Besides, it's good to ask Shen Yue every day about Qige's situation in the kindergarten, so I know very well."

This is also a matter of her own grandson. The old lady naturally felt good, so she also looked at Qige.

Zig nodded hurriedly, "Ayue said that she wants my mother to pick me up every day."

Yes, it took less than a day to know this Shen Yue, and every word has become the imperial edict.

But it was the first time that the old lady saw Zig stop like this in the carriage. The general's wife knew that she was tired from playing in the sand area.

Suddenly, the general's wife also thinks this is very good...

I just remembered what Shen Yue told me before leaving, that there was something new a few days ago, and I liked it no matter how I looked at the kindergarten. , the rest can be left to Shen Yue.

The general's wife suddenly felt that in the matter of parenting, she had an ally.

I felt a lot more at ease.

This trip to kindergarten is completely different from the mood before coming to kindergarten.

She also looked forward to the fact that Grid could go to the Wangfu Kindergarten earlier.

But in fact, that is the day after tomorrow.

***

When the old lady of the Qi family was sent off in person, Tao Bo's head grew a bit bigger.

Thinking that Shen Yue might have to deal with the old lady of the Qi family in the future, Tao Bo also sweated for Shen Yue in his heart.

Neither the old lady of the Qi family nor the young master of the Qi family is a fuel-efficient lamp.

Especially the young son of the Qi family.

Today, I still come to the Pingyuan Palace with the old lady, the general's wife and the general Qi, and the site can be like this before it is familiar. If you become familiar with the palace in the future, and the old lady and the general's wife are not there anymore, and the servants of the general's palace come to pick them up every day, why not demolish the Pingyuan palace?

Tao Dongzhou couldn't help but quicken his pace, and happened to meet Green Green outside the kindergarten.

"How is it today?" Tao Dongzhou couldn't help asking first.

Cong Qing smiled and said, "The young master of the Qi family listened to Miss Shen very much. The general's wife and Miss Shen also had a good chat, and everything went well."

Tao Dongzhou was a little surprised.

But he quickly realized that he should have been thinking too much. Shen Yue got along well with the children, Shen Yue was patient, and the young master of the Qi family was a little bit more bearish, but Shen Yue might not be able to take it all. The little son of the family has no choice, and the little son of the Qi family may not be dissatisfied with Shen Yueguan.

Tao Dongzhou was slightly relieved, and asked again, "Second Young Master?"

Cong Qing replied, "Second Young Master just left the mansion with General Qi. General Qi said a year later, and before he could talk to Second Young Master properly, the two of them went out together without the general's wife. Together with Young Master Qi."

"Where's Miss Shen?" Tao Dongzhou asked again.

Cong Qing was blessed and replied, "Miss Shen just said that the kindergarten will start the day after tomorrow, and Doctor Lou has just come here. In the past few days, Miss Shen may focus more on Miss Six and Qi Qi who is new to the kindergarten. The young master is on the two of them, so let the slave maid and Shao Aiduo take care of the young master next to the mansion."

Cong Qing said this, but Tao Dongzhou knew it.

Shen Yue was trying to find a way to adjust her time and energy, indicating that the kindergarten was still under her control.

Shen Yue's temperament is neither eager for quick success, nor afraid of making mistakes and hiding things. If she really feels that she is in trouble, she will definitely come to him for help.

"Is she in kindergarten?" He also happened to have other things to look for her.

Cong Qing replied, "Ms. Shen said that she would go back to the garden to get the drawings for the expansion of the kindergarten, and said she would go to find the pottery steward later."

Tao Dongzhou couldn't help but nodded. In the palace, Shen Yue is reliable. Shen Yue went to look for him. This is because he was not there just now. She wanted to inform him about the situation where the general's wife brought Qi Xiao Gongzi into the park. One sound; second, when it comes to the expansion plan, she still stayed up late to drive out.

Tao Dongzhou smiled gently, "Then I'll go to her directly to save her another trip."

After Tao Dongzhou finished speaking, he went to Qifu Garden with Cong Qing.

In the Prayer Garden, Shen Yue just finished packing up the blueprints and documents, and was about to leave the garden when she happened to see Cong Qing leading Tao Bolai.

"Tao Bo, I was going to find you." Shen Yue didn't hide it.

Tao Dongzhou said with a smile, "I just happened to come to the kindergarten, so you don't have to make another trip."

The two took their seats in the outer cabinet.

Cuizi poured tea.

There are a lot of things that the two of them want to talk about today, and it will take time to talk about each one.

Shen Yue was not in a hurry at all, and followed one by one.

First, Mrs. General and Zig's experience of entering the park. When Tao Bo was not there, she chose the key point and told Tao Bo that Mrs. General cooperated very well with Mrs. General and Zig's side, she could also handle it, but it didn't cost too much. energy.

What needs to be spent is the relationship between Zig and the children in the house.

Zig is a child of the general's mansion, and it is definitely not as good as the original children in the mansion. After entering the kindergarten, there will inevitably be collisions between Zig and several other children, and they need to be paid attention to in time. On Xiao Liu.

Therefore, it is indeed necessary to have someone to do the reserve to avoid manpower faults. It is relatively easy for her to devote part of her energy to taking care of the children who are in urgent need of care at the moment and the children who are newly admitted to the kindergarten in each period of time.

Second, the semester schedule for the kindergarten has come out, and she has also listed the teachers she needs. Although the time in the kindergarten was not long before, Mr. Qi Meng has these and can be reused. Zhuo Ye and Qi Yun can do it for him in the outdoor activities. , and from this semester onwards, art and music classes will be added, which should require new teachers.

Third, the functional areas and some drawings of the kindergarten expansion are almost the same on her side. This time, she has listed all the comprehensive functions. It is necessary for the master craftsmen to choose together in this expansion according to the actual situation of the north courtyard. For the part that can be achieved, let's take a look at the approximate time schedule.

All these things have been gathered together. The kindergarten is about to start. She wonders if it is possible to do these preparations first while there is still free time in the next day or two.

As Tao Bo listened, he stroked his beard and smiled, "Ayue, don't worry about all of this, just free up the time for today and tomorrow."

Shen Yue was slightly startled, "Is there something going on in the mansion?"

Tao Bo smiled and said, "I just received the news that the second son of Shen will arrive in Beijing tomorrow morning. Ayue, you should spend a good day with your brother. I will talk about the kindergarten slowly, and don't rush this day."

Hansheng will be back tomorrow? Shen Yue Qiyan.

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