Lisko’s American Life

Under Li Feng's kind gaze, Li Ke touched his nose and recounted all the problems he and Zhang Li had encountered so far in embarrassment. At the same time, he looked forward to listening to the elder. Able to give their own suggestions and solutions to bring the whole family atmosphere back to the previous state.

After all, when it comes to married life, both Li Ke and Zhang Li are the first to talk about it, and it is forgivable for some difficulties and ignorance.

Lisko once saw a sentence in a work, which he thinks is really applicable to the current married life, that is, each person is like an independent and completely different stone since he was born, and each person has different edges and corners. In the same way, it may be convex on this side and concave on the other side, or it may be convex on the other side, or even the left and right sides may be full of protrusions.

These protrusions not only represent the shining points, character, temperament, cognition and worldview of each person, but also represent each person's unique personality and characteristics, and they are the main difference between humans and animals.

The process of husband and wife life is a stage of experience in which two people polish their edges and corners in the process of getting along. In this process, some unique features recognized by the two people will be retained, and some will be discarded at the same time. The places that feel tortured and struggling are more polished and smooth, so that the gap can be perfectly fitted together, so that the relationship between husband and wife can be maintained for a long time.

After listening to Li Ke's question, Li Feng's first reaction was that her daughter seemed to be acting a little too much. For all the life that I have now, not only did I not feel cherished and attentive, but I developed some small temperaments of my own.

It may be because of family planning that Li Feng and Zhang You have only one daughter, Zhang Li, to inherit in their lives, so although they treat their daughters harshly in daily life, their love for their daughters comes from the bottom of their hearts.

Unless it involves some more severe principled issues, the two of them will cover up some small things, which also represents the parents' doting and concern for their children.

Now Li Feng feels that there may be some problems with her teaching methods, otherwise how can she develop her daughter's pretentious character. It would be fine if he was just playing a little show in front of himself and Zhang You, but now Zhang Li's identity has changed from an ignorant little girl to a wife of a family, a wife of a family, and a mother of a child. There is also such an immature, even naive idea, which is really a little too cute.

Even though she knew that these things were the reason for her daughter's shyness, but facing Li Ke, who was preparing to listen to her own opinion, Li Feng could not help but feel a hint of apology from the bottom of her heart.

When Li Ke and Zhang Li had just established their relationship, Li Feng was actually full of worries and worries. There was a saying in the ancients that a family should be a good match. This sentence is not groundless, but has some practical truth.

If the gap between the status and status of two people is too great, it may be because they have seen different worlds, resulting in somewhat different topics, and it can even be said that there is no place to communicate at all.

Maybe one party is talking about the romance, and the other party is talking about the people in the chin. There may be no gap for a while, but these are the results of curiosity. After the gap is really separated, it will cause an incomparably big rift, and even the relationship between the two people will be broken again. There is no way to go back to the way it was before.

Guliao

In the process of communication between men and women, it seems that most of the people who are hurt and suffer are women. After losing their youth and some emotions, they get feedback that is covered in bruises.

Men, on the other hand, can quickly regain their spirits after the initial depression. In many markets where men and women interact, older men have some advantages.

To take a very simple example, a man in his 30s finds an 18-year-old partner. Maybe everyone will praise him for his superb skills and excellent performance, but not too harsh.

But if the example of this incident is converted to a woman, a woman in her 30s finds an 18-year-old young man, the first thought in everyone's mind is that this woman must have used unknown means to coerce the other party. , or even a series of poorly described words such as deceit and abduction are instilled in each other.

This is not only a prejudice and an unfair perception of women in the whole society and all groups, but also a real reality in the world and society.

Li Fengsheng is afraid that if the relationship between the two people is not very smooth, in the end, not only will her daughter be hurt, but her youth will even be wasted. A real question to consider.

In addition, the understanding of Lisco at the beginning was not very deep, it could be said to be completely unfamiliar, but I heard that the other party was engaged in the profession of a writer, and even a wealthy person could be regarded as a rich man.

In other words, the first thought of any parent after hearing that their daughter is dealing with such a person is that they are afraid that their daughter will be hurt by the other party. The word rich has always represented confusion and profligacy, although the living standard may be very rich. generous. But not everyone who married into a wealthy family can live so happily~www.wuxiamtl.com~ and the name of writer in the eyes of many elderly people represents a romantic spirit, but at the same time it is also mixed with some private life speculation and evaluation or Labels of stereotypes.

When the two words were instilled into a person, an incomparably three-dimensional image immediately appeared in Li Feng's mind, which was not so friendly to Lisko's senses, and even had a hint of nitpicking.

However, these emotions are not directly expressed through the face and daily life. After all, Lisko is also a rich man anyway, and their family is just the most ordinary common people. Offending this kind of person may lead to a peaceful life. will be greatly affected.

In the days that followed, Li Feng was always in such a state of anxiety, but in the daytime, he always behaved very politely and cautiously with Lisko, and it could even be said to be a bit flattering, just hoping that the two of them could not be normal. If they walk together, they can also separate properly and normally, without angering the rich man, and finally take revenge on his daughter because of love and hatred.

This kind of thinking may seem very funny to others, or even completely ridiculous, but for Li Feng, an old man who has never been abroad in his life, it is the most real feeling and thought in his mind.