My Sister is a Big Star

  "What is emotion? The Buddhists say that there are eight sufferings in life: birth, old age, sickness and death, separation of love, resentment and hatred, unwillingness, and five yin. The eight sufferings derive the desire for greed, hatred, hatred, love and evil.

   Confucianism said that the eight virtues of life: filial piety, loyalty, loyalty, trust, courtesy, righteousness, integrity, and shame. Use morality to frame emotions.

  Taoist said: The world is not benevolent and all things are used as a dog, and the saint is not benevolent and the people are a dog. Therefore, the way of heaven is selfless, and there is no dispute on the road.

  These sayings all revolve around emotions. From this we can see that emotions can derive philosophy, psychology, morality, and so on. "

  "So how do you analyze emotion in modern times? I divide it into four types: love, family affection, friendship, and girlfriend affection."

"There is a reason for this order, love is the most complicated, so I put it first. There is a saying that is very good: love is a kind of purity, friendship is a kind of breadth, and affection is a kind of depth. But these Feelings are not distinct. They blend and transform each other. First of all, let's talk about girlfriends. Among the classmates here, do girls have male girlfriends? Do boys have confidantes?"

"have!"

  The students responded.

  "Girlfriends’ love is a state of being more than Friendship, but not full of love. They can be promoted to the top at any time, but they may not be able to get "status" for a lifetime. It is mixed between love and friendship."

  "Spare tire?" A girl said.

"It's not a spare tire, it will only insult the love of girlfriends." Professor Liu shook his head: "Spare tires are more like people saving a way for themselves, and girlfriends are a real emotion that is indispensable to everyone. I believe everyone has this experience. The troubles encountered in life are not told to family members or best friends, but to a special opposite **** in life. Usually, this person who can let you talk is not Lovers are better than lovers, not relatives are better than relatives."

  Baby Qin envied: "I want a male girlfriend too."

  Prince Yan whispered: "Go find it, don't just be the king of the mouth."

  Baby Qin sighed: "Sister thinks too, but every man who comes into contact with me covets sister's beauty."

  The prince turned his head to look at Qin Ze.

  Qin Ze excitedly said: "Fart, you have to ask me if I agree."

"Let’s talk about friendship again. Friendship is the most indispensable emotion. A person can have no love or even family affection, but it can’t be without friendship. That will make you feel very lonely. According to medical statistics, 90% People with autism are all caused by lack of friendship. So friendship is a kind of breadth. At the same time, friendship can also be transformed into love. The boyfriend and girlfriend's words come from this."

  Some classmates raised their hands: "But not all friendships will turn into love, it's only suitable for people of the opposite sex."

  Professor Liu chuckled: "It's still too young, how do you think the word "friendship" comes from?"

  The hall roared with laughter.

  Qin Ze also laughed. This professor Liu gave a lecture, which was really humorous and deep. There is a lot of dry content. Unlike the Internet novels he reads, they are full of parallel imports of big waves.

"As for family affection, it is probably the warmest kind of affection. Love will deteriorate, friendship will betray, and family affection is the most difficult affection in a person's life. The affection of your parents, the affection of brothers and sisters. It is. Having a strong blood connection is a life-long bond. Family affection is sometimes complicated, and to a certain extent it is the transformation of love. Love is like fireworks, gorgeous and beautiful, but not necessarily long. We often say that the seven-year itch between husband and wife. In fact, it is one. This is a manifestation of the loss of love in the long years. At this time, because of the fetters of children, most couples will transform love into family affection. Between old couples and old wives, it is more to get along and live like relatives. Young lovers are only A passionate love will be like glue. The ancients have long understood this essence. In their concept, a couple who respect each other like guests is the most perfect and reasonable model."

   "But..." Professor Liu turned around and threw a blockbuster: "Family affection can sometimes turn into love. We call it taboo love."

  There was a low uproar among the students.

  This topic is embarrassing, and some girls even blush.

I go!

  Qin Zexin said, eldest brother, do you want to expand next? Can we change the subject? This kind of eighteen forbidden things must be harmonized. I'm still young, can you withdraw it.

  Baby Qin frowned.

"The chaotic (harmonious) relationship in the narrow sense refers to the improper relationship between men and women who are related by blood. The chaotic (harmonious) relationship in the broad sense includes the improper relationship between men and women in the narrow sense. In the traditional sense, the five ethics have been chaotic because of sexual relations. What is the five ethics: Heaven, Earth, and Master.” Professor Liu talked freely, without any embarrassment, with an expression of “this is a serious academic exchange” on his face. It is worthy of being a returnee studying abroad, and his mind is open enough.

  Qin Zexin said, chaos? This is great, is there a hero of the day?

"Forbidden love has a long history, and the definition of it will change in each era. For example, the marriage of cousins, as everyone knows, was normal and legal in ancient times, but not in modern times. But in modern times, teacher-student love, The superlative behavior of subordinate and superior relations cannot be recognized and tolerated in ancient times. The same point is that improper male-female relations between people of blood relationship are not recognized in any era."

   “Let’s focus on the behavior of family affection transforming love today.” Professor Liu said: “Don’t feel embarrassed or embarrassed. This is an academic exchange.”

  A boy suddenly raised his hand: “I think the act of family affection transforming love is very absurd and funny, but anyone with ethics and morality will not do this.”

Professor Liu smiled and said: "This is in line with the popular view, but this kind of thing does exist now. It cannot be said to be very common, but it will not be rare. Especially in many foreign countries. In ancient times, there were many similar phenomena. For the Tang Dynasty, Emperor Taizong once wanted to make his younger sister-in-law Li Yuanji's princess the queen. Later, the female emperor Wu Zetian and Yang Guifei had served the heavenly father and son. But these have nothing to do with what I want to say, so I won't mention it for the time being. "

"How does family affection turn into love? From a psychological point of view, there are two reasons: environmental and emotional needs. Note that it is not a physical need. From the perspective of objective factors, such phenomena often exist in abnormal or unhappy families. In relationships. Single-parent families can especially trigger the Electra and Oedipus complex. It is a manifestation of the child’s insecurity. Some psychologists believe that children must get rid of the Electra and Oedipus complex in order for their personality to grow healthily. Certain spirituality of adults Abnormalities and sexual abnormalities means that they cannot get rid of the Electra complex."

"These are mental illnesses and mental illnesses. They are deformed and unhealthy. Electra and Oedipus complex are very common, but those who really have an improper relationship are rare. The probability will be greatly increased among siblings and siblings." Liu The professor said: "Are there any two-dimensional fans?"

   Suddenly raised his hands, mostly boys.

"In the two-dimensional works of the island country, there is a phenomenon called "sister control", which occupies almost half of the country. People who have watched similar animations can find that the younger sister in the work is extremely dependent on the older brother, and each brother controls the younger sister. , Are not gregarious and withdrawn. In their world, there are few other opposite sexes except their brother. The brother is all of their world, thus forming a strong dependence. If other girls are close to their brother, they will be very Angry. The younger sisters also have a common attribute: Tsundere. I like my brother, but I don’t dare to say it. They care very much, but they have to pretend to be "brother is just a salted fish in my eyes." The reason is this. It is a feeling that is not recognized and accepted."

  "I named it dependent (harmonious) love. This principle also applies to siblings. If you find that there are people around you who rely heavily on your elder brother or elder sister, then it is very likely that you are controlling your elder brother or your elder sister."

"A writer once said that novels come from life and are higher than life. The same is true for comics, and the works of the island country two-dimensional are exaggerated. In reality, the sister-in-law control is obscure. They may not even realize they are With such abnormal feelings, I even feel that the intimacy between brothers and sisters is normal."

   "Students in this room, are there any sister-in-law control? Raise your hand and see." Professor Liu joked.

  It was quiet.

  Baby Qin suddenly said: "Nonsense."

  She looked angry.