Return of the Antagonistic Lady Boss

  Chapter 196 Bad Obedient

"The current family has only one child, two at most, so this aspect is not obvious. If it is a few years earlier, there are several children in the family. This situation is very common. There are two children in a family, one is very obedient and the other is very naughty. When you grow up, if there is a problem with the obedient one, it must be a big problem."

  Yu's mother's expression sighed, "Xiaoqian, what do you mean by that?"

"There are many psychological problems in obedient children. This is a common phenomenon in psychology. The core of human nature has an "instinctive core". This thing makes us aspire to be independent people who can control ourselves, but when a child grows up After he desires to be an obedient'good boy', his instinct is suppressed. When he should have independent thinking, he will conflict with his injured instinct."

   "Depressed..." Yu mother shed tears.

  She really did not expect that her obedient second son kept suppressing herself.

  Xiaoqian pretended not to see her shed tears and continued.

   "Look at a person like Minglang, he has been a naughty child since he was a child, but his instinct has been satisfied, and he has a sense of reality and understands the meaning of life."

  So Yu Minglang dared to insist on choosing what he wanted, he dared to choose a woman like Xiaoqian, all because Yu Minglang understood what he wanted.

   "However, the child in question is a very smart child."

  "It has nothing to do with being clever or stupid. This is instinct. I boldly guessed, Auntie, do you say that the child in question has at least two children in the family. Does he rank in the middle or have younger siblings behind?"

   "Yes, how do you know?"

“I’m learning this stuff recently. Professional courses can be involved. After having a second child at home, some older children will become very obedient. Parents will be happy to say that the child is sensible. In fact, a few-year-old child, What do you let him know? It's all instinct!"

"Instinct?" Yu mother recalled that when she gave birth to the third and fourth child, Yu Mingyi did help her very hard because she was a baby boy. Suddenly, she seemed to have grown up. She was a naughty child before. The eldest is living at school, and the second child helps coax the two children as soon as school is over.

"When there are no new members in the family, he may be a child who is watched by his parents, but suddenly there are new members. The parents must take more care of the baby. He wants to win the attention of his parents, either he is mischievous or mischievous. Obedient and win praise."

After the second child was opened, these situations are very common. Some parents will proudly say that my big treasure is more obedient. In fact, they did not expect that a few-year-old child is already using all his efforts to win over his parents. Praise and attention.

   Helping to coax the child will win the praise of the parents. Look, my family is obedient and sensible.

  In order to cater to their parents, some children use obedience to satisfy their elders. When they say that they are stupid, loyal, and filial, have you ever thought about who caused all this?

   "I really don't know these..." Yu Mu turned around and wiped away tears.

  She has always been proud that her second son is a good, obedient child. She thinks that this child can save herself the most, but she didn't want to owe him so much.

"Too many children tell them that you want to be a good obedient child, and you will put a shackle on his'instinctual core' at a very young age. So from the perspective of our psychology, these good children will grow up. , On the contrary, the probability of problems is greater than that of naughty children."

   "Then what should I do now."

"The best way is to pay more attention to communicating with the child since he was young, so that he can feel the love his parents have for him. The effect of seeing a psychologist when he grows up is always not good, especially-some people are too smart and have a lot of restraint. Be strong. He will reject psychotherapy. You are a doctor. You should know that if you have antibodies to antibiotics, getting sick is terminally ill."

  Xiaoqian looked at Yu's mother's irritated expression, and felt that she seemed a bit cruel, but she couldn't say it.

"Assuming that your friend’s child is in a special department, and it’s okay to receive regular psychological tests, and he has some discomfort in some aspects, then it’s useless to see a psychologist...it’s just natural. In fact. How should I put it, there are many situations like this, but some people just happen to not be in important positions and they will not pose a threat."

But the second brother can’t. His position is too special, and a slight change in mentality will be dangerous. Xiaoqian looks at the people coming and going outside the window, because her parents interfere with marriage and work too many people, but those people are not pilots. Will be able to live a lifetime.

Yu mother never thought that such an excellent second son would hate the blue sky and hate flying. It is most likely that she and her wife had an unintentional influence on him when they were young. This cognition is for mothers who love children. It was a particularly serious blow.

"how could this be..."

"In fact, from the perspective of parents, it can be understood that parents are not gods, and there is no way to consider them all. As long as they are not principled, it is not a problem. Auntie, look at so many people in this world. Is there a perfect one?"

  In that era, it was amazing to be able to feed and warm up the children. Who has the time to think of these details?

  Yu’s mother wiped her tears. She really felt ashamed of her child, but there was no way to relieve her. Is it really necessary to let her child leave the blue sky and live the life he wants is the best choice for him?

  Xiaoqian judged this way. She felt that Yu Mingyi must change jobs, at least he could not fly.

   What Xiaoqian did not expect was that she could not cure Yu Mingyi, someone could cure it.

Yu Mu and Xiaoqian returned to Yu Mingyi’s home from the cold drink shop. Neither of them mentioned this. Yu Mingyi did not see that their mother’s eyes were a little red. After sending Xiaoqian and Dong back home, he suddenly noticed The folder I put on the coffee table is gone.

  He thought for a while, and suddenly guessed that his mother might have taken it away.

  Yu Mingyi grabbed the phone and wanted to call his mother, but he picked up the phone and put it down again with a calm expression on his face.

  Hidden the secret for so long, if his parents know it, he will know it. It is estimated that his father will soon come and find himself to settle the account. At that time, he will just follow his father's will to tear up the resignation report.

  After all, this is also expected, but I don’t know how long I have to endure such an unhappy life...

  Yu's mother hugged her child and killed her all the way home. When she arrived in Q City, it was already dark and Yu's father was waiting for her to eat.

   "I'm back, hurry up to eat, why is it so late today-old woman, what's wrong with your eyes?"

  Yu's mother handed Panpan to the little aunt, took out the resignation report from her pocket, and handed it to him silently.

  Father Yu didn’t know why his wife was so serious, so he took it, just glanced at it, and slapped the paper on the table angrily.

   "Making a fool! This little bastard, it's drifting! Training a pilot is more expensive than building an airplane, and he is picking up a man! Bastard! See if I won't take care of him!"

  Yu's father said that he was about to go out, and Yu's mother suddenly burst into tears.

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