Return of the Antagonistic Lady Boss

  Chapter 586 Understanding and clues

  In the past and this life, she owes a sentence of sorry to Minglang. She disappointed his affection and made him wait for a lifetime in the past and this life is racking his brains for her condition.

  It would be great if she was a normal person, and if she could control her heart.

  But disease is definitely not something that you can control. Many people in society have misunderstandings about patients with mental illness, thinking that as long as the patients work hard, they can control it. If they can’t control it, it is hypocritical, that is, it is selfishness.

  Many people don’t understand premarital phobia, hand-washing obsessive-compulsive disorder, or even depression.

  Love him so much, why not marry? Hypocritical!

  You know that washing your hands is not good, why do you keep washing your hands? Poor self-control!

  Life is so good, why do you always think about depression and suicide? Not promising!

  Normal people use the so-called normal thinking to restrain the patient. Such misunderstandings make the patient's psychological pressure even greater. The patient becomes more and more disgusted by not accepting the sick self, and the condition is getting worse.

As a psychiatrist, Xiaoqian does not approve that a normal person can easily choose a person with psychological problems, because choice means tolerance. Tolerance is too easy to say, but there are too few people who can do it, and a lifetime is so long. They are all personalities. Who wants to endure and make concessions all their lives? They are not gods. Who can have no temper at all?

  Who is Yu Minglang?

  He is a very good man. He is unattainable in the eyes of outsiders.

   But in order to tolerate a sick self, he would rather be a very different person.

  Doing all the things that others seem silly, even if the deeds are revealed, you have to take it down by yourself, bear all her anger and don't tell her, this is treating her.

  Perhaps others think that this is a stupid and second-hand man, but Xiaoqian knows that he can be different, he can be very shrewd.

  But the price for his shrewdness was to hurt her, so he stayed on the road of the second and never looked back.

  In his previous life, Yu Minglang was very mature, even with a bit of asceticism, and he was the most perfect husband candidate in the hearts of all young girls.

   But in this life, Yu Minglang repeatedly made concessions for her psychological problems and became a man who is willing to do everything...

  Yu Ming Lang waited for her to go crazy and was ready to continue being beaten, but when she opened her eyes, Xiao Qian looked at herself with tears in her eyes, and she was very anxious.

   "Oh, feed my ancestors! Don't cry, all the mistakes are my fault. You can do whatever you want except break up, can you not cry?"

   "I have something to tell you." She forced back her tears and made a big decision in her heart.

  Yu Minglang saw her suddenly being so serious, and suddenly an ominous premonition came up in her heart. Seeing Xiaoqian still opening his mouth, he stretched out his finger against her lips.

"Don't say anything! If you dare to say something about breaking up, don't blame your brother for hitting you ass! Beat me until you are obedient! I was wrong, but that would not directly sentence me to death! You have to give me Opportunity for reform through labor education!"

  Before, she once mentioned the feeling of breaking up once. It is clear that she can't forget it now. He is now afraid of hearing the word break up.

  Xiao Qian shook her head.

   "I'm not breaking up, I mean, if you really want to get married... let's try it."

  The worst result is nothing more than her poor adaptation after marriage, and her nightmares have become more serious, so she will think of a solution when the time comes.

  She didn’t believe that she couldn’t get married as a psychologist.

  There is now a divergence between consciousness and subconsciousness.

  Consciousness is the thoughts and thinking that she can control. Xiaoqian clearly realizes that she loves Minglang and wants to live with him and start a family. She wants to marry him.

  But what is opposed is her subconscious.

  Because of the failure of raising children, Xiaoqian's subconscious made her reject marriage, and she was afraid that she would be the same as her previous life, and all of this was beyond Xiaoqian's control.

The subconscious mind is such a magical existence. I can’t feel its existence, but it influences our worldview. If Xiaoqian is not a psychologist, it is better to find a psychologist at the level of Professor Liu and let her hypnotize Xiaoqian. , Directly enter the subconscious mind, modify her memory.

Xiaoqian used this method to treat other patients before. Professor Liu did not expect that Xiaoqian had memories of her previous life, so her premarital phobia was more serious than expected. Even if the factor of rebirth is ruled out, Xiaoqian’s self-control People with strength can't use hypnosis. There is a kind of people who are particularly good at resisting hypnosis. Both Xiaoqian and Yu Minglang fall into this category.

  So Xiaoqian wanted to gamble once, she wanted to try what would happen after she and Yu Minglang forcibly married, and use her consciousness to fight against the subconscious.

  Hearing that she agreed to get married, Yu Minglang not only was not ecstatic, but looked at her deeply.

  Xiaoqian shook her hand twice in front of his eyes. How could this guy's performance be completely different from what she thought?

  "Don't worry now." Yu Minglang, who has been anxious to get married, did not get dazzled by joy after hearing Xiaoqian's consent, but made a calm judgment.

   "But you—"

   "I'm in a hurry, I also want to marry you home, but since you are not ready, then relax and don't feel the psychological pressure."

   "I can try it."

  Yu Minglang was dumbfounded by her resolute expression, so she could only put her chin against the top of her head.

   "Look at your face now. It's like going to the execution ground. It's a joy to get married, so we shouldn't be so nervous."

   With this expression, Xiaoqian knows that she has decided to marry him, but she doesn’t know who dug her family’s ancestral grave.

   "You all know that I am a bit premarital phobia, so don't pick that my expression is not in place!" God knows how painful it is to fight against your instincts.

  Xiaoqian thought very vividly at this time, what is it like to have a mental illness that cannot be overcome?

  Speaking less elegantly, like peeing on your pants.

  I know it’s not good but I can’t control it. After I can’t control it, I will feel self-disgusting, but I can’t control it.

  The self-experience of mental illness is almost like this.

  Yu Minglang knew that she must have made a lot of determination to overcome her psychological fear at this time, so she felt sorry for her and didn't want to force her.

"I'm not picking your expression in place. I hope my bride can marry me with a smile. Since you are not ready for the time being, I can wait. I have waited for three years, and it is not bad for this year. Don't think about anything. My fault is my fault. It has nothing to do with you."

  He probably guessed that Xiaoqian was not angry but said to marry him with red eyes. Maybe he knew his real purpose. Yu Minglang didn't want Xiaoqian to be stressed and didn't want her to continue talking about her phobia, so he changed the subject directly.

  "Qianbao, where did you get this towel, imported from the island country?"

  He took off the towel on his head and wanted to change the subject, but he didn't expect this transfer to transfer a super key clue!

  Thanks to Nana Sheng’s favorite person, He Choi, for the reward, plus more to send it to me~

  (End of this chapter)