Return of the Antagonistic Lady Boss

  Chapter 783 The super-difficult option given by Qian always (thanks to Nana Sheng's favorite person and Cho Bi + more)

"Because I thought that the man had a normal complexion, he didn't look like a drug addict, and a gambler wouldn't wear that formality. He didn't smell like alcohol and he wasn't an alcoholic. So what can make you tell you about divorce must be domestic violence. "

  A mouth is to fight back. I think that the two of them should have principled problems. For marriage, the principled problems should be smoking, gambling, and domestic violence.

"Yes, well said. You can be more careful and more confident. When she called, she specifically answered who she was with. This shows that her husband has a strong desire to control her, and she has eyes on her. With injuries, the first thing after her husband came is to observe if there are any men around her. Although he is very polite, his eyes and expressions can hardly conceal that he is a man with an aggressive personality. The probability of domestic violence is 90%."

   Nodding her head, she actually thought so too, but not as fast as President Qian.

"20 is really different from 2000." Freshman said from the bottom of her heart. She really admired Xiaoqian's generous and calm attitude when treating patients. It was an effect that she could not achieve when she desperately tried to cultivate. Freshman thinks that doctors should have the same temperament as Xiaoqian, and patients will be very confident when they see such a doctor.

  "Everyone starts at 20. You will be able to get to the next level if you work hard. It is suitable for you to deal with some of these cases at this stage, and gradually increase your experience."

   "But she said she wouldn't find me."

   "When she is beaten next time, she will look for you. You will know how to deal with it at that time. Remember, the principle of treating women who have been domestically abused is not to ask them why they don’t get divorced."

   "Why do you say that?" A city manager asked curiously when he heard it. He was domestically abused. Why didn't he ask why he didn't leave the scumbag?

"There are many reasons for domestic violence, and the ways to deal with them are different. More women who don’t leave are not only for psychological reasons, but also for pathological reasons. If a woman who has been domestically abused has battered spouse syndrome, you will not give her treatment. Well, she still can’t live an independent life, and it’s easy to lead to tragedies. You can go to the women’s prison to see how many female prisoners who murdered their husbands are what I said? You can also go to the men’s prison to see if the wife is chopped. This may also be the case for dead male prisoners. There are some women who do not have the instinct to live independently. If you let her divorce, she feels that the sky is falling, and she will be even more miserable if she is not cured."

When the depression erupts to a certain level, either the woman hacks the man to death or the domestic violence. The man can’t stand the woman and wants to leave and beat the woman to death, so it’s not painful or itchy to ask people why you didn’t divorce. This is definitely not what a professional psychologist should do of.

  Xiaoqian's explanation made the urban management not quite understand, she just found it very complicated.

"When you are not a client, never stand at the right angle you think you can't talk about and don’t hurt back. If there is no way to solve her troubles, don’t ask her why she didn’t get divorced. You can only understand her situation and think practically for her. The solution allows her to regain her self. When the time comes, she will either leave or look at the situation. This is the right way to deal with domestic violence."

Domestic violence is a very common social phenomenon. There are particularly many and particularly complex reasons. Every psychologist has different treatments for domestic abuse counselors or those who have been counseled by domestic violence, but no matter which set of programs it is , I didn't even come up and accused them of why they didn't divorce.

Although it seems to many people that being beaten and abused without getting divorced is a crime, that is, poor people must be hateful, but how can these people know that not leaving may be threatened by their husbands to leave and kill you and your whole family? It may be reluctant to give up the child, for the sake of the child to swallow his anger, or it may be that Xiaoqian said that a pathological cause has occurred, and he has developed a pathological dependence on a domestic violence man, similar to Stockholm syndrome.

  If the problem is not resolved, even if they are divorced, they will still be chased and beaten. A large proportion of women who are domestic violence will still be beaten by their ex-husbands after divorce.

Even some women are not divorced by domestic violence, precisely because of the rumors of bystanders. Nowadays, the society treats divorced women not very tolerantly. If they are divorced, people around them will secretly say that even if the fault is not the woman. If you do, the divorce will still be read.

  When making irresponsible remarks from the perspective of the bystander, have you ever thought that your actions have become a sword to hurt others?

  Xiaoqian reminded her freshman year, if she encounters such a consultant, what should she do, freshman year carefully write down.

  After talking about domestic violence, Qian always remembered something again.

  "Did you come into contact with the person I was talking about during your internship at the central hospital?"

  Xiaoqian is talking about Ye Daqian, which is also her homework for freshman recently.

  As the two talked, they followed everyone to the lounge of the Urban Management Brigade. They walked at the end and spoke quietly, but there was still a senior lady who walked slowly on purpose and tried to listen to what they said with her ears upright.

   "I went to contact the patient yesterday. He has post-traumatic stress disorder and will constantly dream of being bitten by a dog."

  "Tell me your opinion." Xiaoqian asked.

“It’s not difficult to get sick. What’s difficult is the contradiction in my heart. On the one hand, I feel disgusted with what he is doing. On the other hand, I am a doctor. If he is my patient, I can’t leave him alone. What should I do? do?"

  In the past, President Qian came forward to settle everything that happened. When freshman had troubles, I thought of looking for President Qian.

   "Ye Daqian's case is handed over to you. I will not give you any specific advice. You just have to remember that after you handle this case, you will be able to become a qualified psychologist in the future."

  Psychologists must have medical ethics. Regardless of who the patient has done or is heinous, the patient must do his best to treat him before his eyes—this is what the freshman thought before he came into contact with Ye Daqian. But after coming into contact with Ye Daqian, the freshman felt sympathy and anger towards this nasty wicked person. As a normal person with a conscience, she was deeply disgusted with Ye Daqian’s bullying of young girls, but as a doctor, she couldn’t help but save her. .

  Qian always gave her a super difficult option, and she was very confused in her freshman year.

   "I asked my second brother very tactfully. Of course, I can't divulge the patient's information. I just asked him, a bad guy came to see me, what should I do?"

   "What did the second brother say?"

   "Second brother said... let me figure it out."

   "Puff." Xiaoqian smiled, really like her second child.

"You don't help me, I have a headache." Freshman has never encountered such a tangled thing. The doctor's vocation and morality are intricately intertwined. What should she do? This is very important for newcomers. step.

  As President Qian expected, the freshman year is now numb.

"In the future, you will be an independent licensed consultant, and you will have to solve tens of thousands of problems. This little thing can’t help you. Think about it for yourself. In fact, the second brother has already told you the answer. These things are outsiders like us. I can't explain it to you in detail, so you can enlighten it yourself."

  "..." The more Xiaoqian said, the more confused she became, the second brother told her the answer? What is it?

  Thanks to Nana Sang for his favorite He Chobi, plus more to send~

  (End of this chapter)