What if I'm really rich

In the afternoon, 15:26.

The Bentley Continental set sail again, entered the Sichuan Province area, and stopped before reaching Luyuanya.

"Bang! Go..."

Zhao Yu glanced at the closed hood, and after Su Ze took the key, he quickly opened the door and got out of the car.

On the road just now, Zhao Yuwei saw the pig trough boat, and told Su Ze to come down and wait for A Pu.

After barely waiting for a long time, A Pu and others got out of the car and boarded the boat with Su Ze.

Sitting on the boat, there are still white flowers floating on the rippling lake.

...

After passing Dazu Village with the best view of the lake, seeing the happy look of putting her little hands out of the window to face the wind, Su Ze couldn't help but relax and rubbed her hands.

In the evening when it was about to arrive, the convoy headed north all the way and finally entered a traditional Mosuo village.

When Duan Huili was in Lugu Lake, the tour guide she found was a local girl, but she did not belong to this village.

Her name is a bit of a mouthful, and it comes from the origin of Buddhist culture. The two call her Ake for the time being.

After A Ke left the map at the beginning, he came to this village early this afternoon to look for people.

So when Su Ze and others arrived, the family had already prepared a sumptuous local food.

While Su Ze and Zhao Yuwei were modest and courteous, they were invited into the fire pond, the so-called grandmother's house.

When the group of them arrived, the whole family was there, but there were only two men in this family.

One is a 17-year-old boy, his identity is an uncle, and the other is just a male baby in swaddling clothes.

The main host for several people was a grandmother named Wa Erbinma, who was 63 years old.

On top of her, there is an 86-year-old lady, aka grandmother...but with limited mobility.

This house is still a key protected residence of the Mosuo matriarchal family. The building is like a courtyard of the Han nationality, but this one belongs to Yijin and has three floors.

Nuojia learned "Ni Hao" from Su Ze, but his mother laughed at him for being cheated, and Mosuo language is not as good as you.

But there is nothing embarrassing about it. There is no road on the mountain. If there are more people walking, there will be a road.

Zhao Yuwei followed suit, and everyone was in a good mood, and the younger sisters with grandmas also said Nuo Jia.

This is to express their welcome as guests. This place is a little far away from the scenic spot, and there are usually few people here.

At least compared with the tourists coming and going in Daluo Village, it can be found that there are almost very few tourists here.

Because it was still early, as the backbone of the family, grandma took Su Ze and others around.

Zhao Yu experienced a little bit of traditional Mosuo clothing, and was unwilling to take it off.

The building of their house, according to my grandmother, is like a Buddhist scriptures pavilion because of religion.

The religion they believe in is Tibetan Buddhism, and the Daba culture in this branch is also very pious.

Just like the prayer wheel in the old grandmother's hand from the very beginning, Su Ze didn't seem to see it stop.

The sky is slowly getting dark...

Su Ze learned another word during the meal, "Ri Cha" read out gently, which means cheers.

For example, it means delicious.

Including some simple titles on…

Ai Zi, Ai Ji, Amu, Gumi, except for Ai Zi and A Mu, Su Ze always messes up.

It was still very cold at night, so the young uncle added a fire, and after dinner, everyone sat around the campfire.

There are only two males and nine females in a large family. This is the so-called matrilineal family relationship.

"Are we monogamous too?"

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"It's monogamy."

"Walking marriage also has a ceremony."

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"It's equivalent to no relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law."

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"Yes, there is no such thing as property division. Children must live with their mothers."

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Everyone gathered in the fire pit and never went out. They ate here and talked and chatted here.

Su Ze asked a group of people by himself, while Zhao Yuwei, who was dressed in Mosuo costume, listened obediently.

Unknowingly, Su Ze had chatted with them for nearly an hour while drinking the milk tea they made.

During this period, I learned a lot, and Su Ze felt that he was about to leave. After getting acquainted with this family and getting to know a little bit better, he looked at his kind mother and asked with a smile:

"that is…"

"When our husband and wife have a child, do we hope it will be a girl, at least one?"

Hearing Su Ze's question, everyone in the room didn't care about it at all, and grandma even smiled frankly:

"Yes, it's better if it's a girl."

Hearing what she said, no matter the man or woman in the family in the room, there was no strange expression.

It's like asking the traditional Han people "a man supports the family", it's a default thing, and the mother can't doubt it.

With the previous understanding, neither Su Ze nor Zhao Yuwei was surprised, and continued to laugh:

"I don't hate boys anyway."

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"That's for sure."

"Little boy, how cute."

"I won't dislike it. The main reason is that there are no more girls, so there will be no more family inheritance."

Before Su Ze finished speaking, Grandma spoke decisively and casually explained the main reason.

"If you don't give birth to a girl, you have to adopt one from outside, or the uncle marry a woman and let her be the heir of the family."

"A family without women can't be a family, so we are actually very flexible sometimes."

"But now young people, there are some people in the village who have been admitted to college and go out, and there are many who don't want to."

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"Oh…"

Respecting the local culture, Su Ze learned something, and almost understood the pros and cons of it.

The good thing is that they can return to their own families. The reason why the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not handled well is mainly that their hearts are not on the same line, and each has its own calculations.

Like the Mosuo people's way of "always staying in their mother's house", the family is more harmonious without the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

But the downside is that...

To be honest, it hinders social development.

This system is only suitable for rural areas.

This is why nowadays, due to the development of society, the younger generation of Mosuo people themselves have shaken this system and are more willing to contact the outside world.

"Gene Era"

And people outside, after hearing only one-sided words, began to yearn for this so-called matrilineal family.

It's not so much that outsiders yearn for matriarchy.

Rather, what women outside yearn for is to expand their reproductive rights infinitely, and what men outside yearn for is to slowly let go of their sense of responsibility for raising their offspring.

And if the society is really like this, it is not as simple as living in your own small world in the valley, and the disadvantages of this system will be infinitely magnified.

Both Su Ze and Zhao Yuwei understand the specific disadvantages, that is the so-called "family" system.

The current social structure is only tainted with the family system, which is not people-oriented, but family-oriented.

In front of the metropolis, basically finished...

The taste of the new year is getting weaker and weaker now, not entirely because of wealth, but because today's social structure is more about self and society.

Instead of being family-oriented, consider negotiating every major event, even every small matter.

The basis for the existence of matrilineal society is the family system, and the patrilineal family system is basically disappearing.

Whether domestic or foreign.

Just like the ancient times with family imperial power as the structure, if there was a plague or something, many people would often die.

But socially structured...

Su Ze and Zhao Yuwei were not experts, so they left the village quickly without thinking too much.

ps: why do you say that...

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