Divorce in middle age: starting with the manor system

Falling in love with you, divorce in middle age: starting from the manor system

Hearing this, Wu Qingfeng looked at his son with his head down in a daze, feeling joy welling up in his heart.

Since ancient times, the Chinese have maintained the relationship between families and ethnic groups with strong family ties, especially families. Chinese parents have been fighting for their children all their lives.

He is also included.

His parents were no exception.

How could Wu Qingfeng be unhappy now that he was affirmed by his son.

At least in Wu Di's eyes, his father is qualified. For Wu Qingfeng, these 20 years are worth it.

Wu Qingfeng smiled, squeezed his son's shoulders and said with a smile: "Don't think too much, I am also a father for the first time. There is no template for the role of father, because every child and father are different!"

"Look at you boy, your shoulders were not so strong before, so this is growth, and the role of father is also growing slowly, so don't think too much, feel it with your heart, and learn slowly with love, It’s okay to be wrong, just correct it!”

Every man will be a father for the first time, life will have its ups and downs, and so will the role of father.

On the road of his two children's growth, he will also feel melancholy, angry and even violent. Although the process is tortuous and difficult, as long as he slowly corrects the shortcomings, he will always get a good result.

"Dad, I know!"

Feeling the strength of his father's hand on his shoulder, Wu Di's anxiety disappeared in a flash.

Because he felt that his father's hand strength seemed to be much weaker. It hurt him a lot when pinching him before, and then it hurt, a little bit, a little bit, until now it doesn't hurt anymore.

"By the way, have you decided on a name?" Wu Qingfeng asked curiously.

"I thought of several names!"

"If it's a boy, it's called Shi Yu, Xiu Chen, Bo Xu, Xing Hui..." Wu Di said in a rush.

Wu Qingfeng was stunned.

After talking about a dozen names, Wu Di stopped!

"Dad, what do you think?" Wu Di looked at his father excitedly and expectantly. These names were accumulated over a long period of time after he learned that his wife was pregnant.

Wu Qingfeng came to his senses, glanced at his son, and had to say, judging from how well this kid memorized these names, this kid really put his heart into it.

Wu Qingfeng thought for a while and said, "Shiyu, you feel gentle and elegant, and a pillar of talent, not bad!"

"Xiu Chen also has the meaning of being both talented and beautiful, erudite and talented, and outstanding. It's not bad."

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"Tianyi, if you want to soar into the sky and show your grand plans, that's fine."

A dozen or so names are good names that mean something.

"You boy, it seems that your university is not in vain, and the names you choose are very poetic and literary." Wu Qingfeng laughed.

"Dad, which one do you think is better?" Wu Di looked at his father and asked expectantly.

"Not bad!" Wu Qingfeng laughed.

"What about the girl's name?" Wu Qingfeng asked curiously. The names his son thought of were indeed good, and he couldn't choose one.

Another one, the right to choose the child's name should be left to the young couple to discuss themselves. He doesn't speak, because once he speaks, it will be instructive.

For parents, naming their children is a symbolic right. At the same time, the name also represents the expectations of parents for their children.

Just like his son Wu Di, the name of his daughter Wu Duo also has meaning.

Di, for the sake of the country, do not change the law, implying that children have great wisdom.

Duo is relatively simple, meaning beautiful, smart, and beautiful like a flower.

In short, every child's name contains the expectations of their parents for him.

Seeing that his father couldn't choose, Wu Di also had a headache.

Because he also thinks that every name is good, but he doesn't know which one to choose.

All that aside, the father was heard asking the girl's name.

Wu Di suddenly became excited again, and quickly said: "Lingxue, Yueyan, Qiya, Yanhui, Bingying, Yunxi, Ningjia, Ya'an, Mengxuan, Ziyue, Ruonan, Sixue, Qiaofeng, Hua Shu, Suyan, Xianman..."

When Wu Qingfeng heard this, he immediately wanted to give his son a thumbs up.

Because the kid still is.It seems that he has prepared for a long time and put his mind into it.

Especially these names, each of them is quite nice.

"By the way, Dad, do we want to add a genealogy?" Wu Di looked at his father Wu Qingfeng and asked.

Wu Qingfeng thought for a while and said, "No, just do what you want."

Wu Di nodded.

Wu Qingfeng smiled. The Wu family has a very long genealogy, but in ancient times, the general family had to pass the delineation of the generation in the compilation of the genealogy, so as to "distinguish the superior and the inferior, and order the elder and younger". Purpose.

Therefore, the genealogy is the main sign that people consider themselves to be a clan. It can not only enable clansmen to clearly know their status in the clan, but also understand the distinction between senior and junior. organizational principles.

This kind of character genealogy is of little use in modern society.

Because the social pattern in China is changing now. In the past, when they met people from the same town or clan with the same surname, they would help each other out. Sweep the snow in front of your own door, don't care about the frost on others' roofs.

Anyway, for Wu Qingfeng, or for Wu Di's generation, or even the next generation, there is no need for a genealogy.

Immediately, the two father and son chatted for a while about the child's future name, and then talked about other things, after all.No matter for Wu Qingfeng or Wu Di, their father and son hadn't talked face to face for a long time.

More than 10 o'clock in the evening.

In the pre-delivery room, Wu Duo and Yang Liu, mother and daughter, began to shout hastily.

Wu Qingfeng and Wu Di, who were chatting, got up and ran into the pre-delivery room when they heard the words.

Because there is a pager in the pre-delivery room that directly connects to the duty room, so when Zhang Xinyu felt unwell, Yang Liu and Wu Duo had already called the doctor on duty.

The expectant female doctor and several nurses came quickly.

After the female doctor examined Zhang Xinyu, everyone got the news that the little guy in Zhang Xinyu's stomach stopped being mischievous this time.

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outside the delivery room.

Wu Qingfeng, Yang Liu, Wu Duo, as for Wu Di, because he was worried about his wife, he entered the delivery room to accompany the delivery.

There are also Zhang Qingcheng and his wife who just came from home. Because their daughter has not given birth for a long time, and they have to go to work tomorrow, they went back to rest first.

When they heard that their daughter was about to give birth, they quickly got up from the bed and drove over.

Everyone waited anxiously for more than two hours.

That's right, after more than two hours, even Wu Qingfeng, who was very patient, felt a little restless.

It is very difficult for a woman to give birth to her first child. It takes as little as 10 minutes and as long as seven or eight hours.

He remembered that when Yang Liu gave birth to Wu Duo and Wu Di, it was very smooth, because the doctor said that the twins were small in weight, so they came out quickly.

If it is the first child, no matter how large the size is, it will be a kind of suffering for the first-born mother.

wow wow wow...

Everyone got up quickly and ran to the door of the delivery room.

Although the sound insulation effect of the delivery room is very good, they can still hear the baby's crying clearly.

"The child finally came out, it's really tortured to death!" Mother Zhang said with a smile.

"That's right, this child is going to be beaten, torturing my mother like this!" Yang Liu on the side also showed a long-lost smile.

Wu Qingfeng and Zhang Qingcheng also looked at each other and smiled.