I got married to an orthopaedic surgeon

"Did you change Xiaobao's name only to the surname, or to both the first and last name?" Zhou Mo asked.

"Just change your surname. I gave you the first name."

Little Treasure's first name is Guo Huixuan.

The name has "Hui", so Liu Xia probably hoped that Guo Zhong would change his mind when he named it.

"Sister Xia Xia, why didn't you tell uncle earlier about such a big thing?" Zhou Mo looked at the little treasure in Liu Xia's arms. Although she couldn't bear it, she still wanted to ask Liu Xia's thoughts clearly, "If it had been earlier... …I know it's not a good thing to say, but you can really relax without kids."

Divorce with children and divorce without children are completely different.

"I know what you said," Liu Xia looked at Xiaobao and said, "It's all a choice, and it's also a mistake. The child is right. Since I decided to give birth, I can't regret it. My dad also said, It’s not that I can’t afford it, so educate him well in the future, let him understand etiquette, righteousness and shame, and don’t be like his father.”

"That's for sure," Zhou Mo said, "I want to ask... why did you decide to give birth and didn't want to destroy it?"

"Stupid, I have committed a common problem of stupid women, thinking that his parents are here, he will come back sooner or later after he has been out for a while," Liu Xia said, "My father-in-law and mother-in-law also told me that as long as a man has children, he will definitely Take it easy, I believed it, but I also lost."

Lost terribly.

"Falling in love and getting married are two different things. Before and after marriage are two different things. After getting married, whether to have children is also another thing." Liu Xia looked at Zhou Mo and said, "A well-matched marriage may not necessarily be a happy one. Marriage mainly depends on the marriage. People. The same rice feeds all kinds of people, and different people have different marriage outcomes. The most important point is that women should rely on themselves and their natal families, not on men and on marriage.”

This is Liu Xia's biggest realization after experiencing these things.

Zhou Mo nodded, and she also agreed: "I have always felt that it is always right to be more defensive in everything. Don't just jump in and ignore the same person as soon as you meet them. While love is passionate, you must also be open-minded. The courage to leave. So when I first came into contact with Han Chen, I always kept distance and suspicion."

Not sure about Han Chen's true intention and purpose, Zhou Mo couldn't devote himself wholeheartedly.

So she would rather quarrel with him, quarrel with him, stay away from him, than fall into the emotional trap he woven, fall into the mud, and be unable to get out in a mess.

"Although my parents also urged me, they also gave me confidence. They have the same idea as my uncle. No matter how bad their daughter is, it's no one else's turn to dislike her."

"My aunt and uncle still love you as always," Liu Xia looked at Zhou Mo with envy in her heart.

"My uncle and my aunt love you very much too," Zhou Mo said.

"My parents are different from yours," Liu Xia said, "My parents are busy with business, and they haven't been with me since I was a child. Although I can feel that they love me very much, I... …very lonely."

Zhou Mo hugged Liu Xia's shoulders.

Zhou Mo can fully understand what Liu Xia said.

When Liu Chengfu's breeding factory was first established, there was no market, so Liu Chengfu and his wife went out to collect orders, went to various farmers' markets, and talked with each stall.

Every time I go out, it is a month or two.

It was okay when I was in school, and I was sent to a boarding school, full-time care.

It happened during the holiday, Liu Xia had no one to take care of her, so she had to be sent to Zhou Mo's house by Liu Chengfu.

When Liu Xia was in junior high school, Zhou Mo was still in elementary school, and Liu Xia was in opera training classes, and she always took Zhou Mo to the class.

The two sisters spent a lot of childhood, and they have never been impatient, and they have always been good sisters.

It's just that as the age grows and the pressure of study increases, Zhou Mo and Liu Xia, who is in college, drift away.

We don't often meet each other on weekdays, and only have the opportunity to see each other during long holidays.

After Liu Xia got married, there were fewer opportunities to meet each other.

Once a woman gets married and gets entangled in family chores, it is basically equivalent to losing contact with the outside world.

Marrying out, her husband cheating, domestic violence, being pregnant with a child... The hardships of life came one after another. She looked around, alone and helpless, only to realize that she was going to hell instead of getting married.

Loneliness...is the straw that broke the camel's back.

"Sister Xia Xia," Zhou Mo rubbed her shoulder, "Now you are not alone, with uncles, aunts, and us, we are your strongest backing."

"Yes," Liu Xia said with a smile, "I can feel it."

Zhou Mo looked at the little guy lying obediently in Liu Xia's arms, and asked, "Can you bring Xiaobao here by yourself now? Didn't you invite a confinement lady?"

"Please, with my mother's help, three people can bring them here."

"Where's my aunt? Why didn't you come here today?"

"She has gone back to her mother's house. Tomorrow is my grandfather's [-]th day. My dad and I have to go back."

Zhou Mo heard about it.

Liu Xia's grandfather passed away some time ago. It is the custom of Yushan that when the elder dies for a hundred days, there will be a mourning banquet.

"Where is the second aunt? Why didn't you come?"

"The factory needs to be watched by someone. She recently learned to run the factory. She said that she wants to contract the pond by herself, raise fish and shrimp, and also set up an aquaculture factory."

Zhou Mo couldn't help laughing, "Second Aunt still likes to make troubles so much."

"There's no other way if you don't toss around, counting on Liu Hui's salary, when will you be able to marry a daughter-in-law?"

"What about you? Since you came home, are you in a much better mood?" Zhou Mo asked.

"Of course, listening to the crowing of chickens, ducks and geese every day, and going out to the hills and rivers, is much more leisurely than Tao Yuanming."

Zhou Mo saw that her expression had returned to normal, even a little relaxed and happy, and she was relieved a lot.

"When Xiaobao gets older, I won't bother you anymore. You can come to Dongjiang to play with me at any time," Zhou Mo said, "Yesterday, my friend and I went to 'Green Island', the water park there is very good, we can play together go."

"That's all for later. How can you have fun when you have children?"

Zhou Mo disagreed, "Whether you have children or not, you are who you are, play as you want, and don't treat yourself lightly. It's only natural for a woman to love her children and love herself. I want you to live a little more happily and live out Your own demeanor. Sister Xia Xia, you used to love operas, you loved to wear skirts, and you always went to bookstores secretly to read real romance novels. I hope that you can be as bold as you were before, and do what you like thing."

Liu Xia was slightly surprised.

Everyone is encouraging her, telling her to work hard for the sake of her child, and cheer up to live a good life.

But no one ever told her that her life was not only about children, but also about herself.

She can live for herself, with or without children.

Thinking back to myself when I was a girl, I just wanted to do what I liked, it was so happy.

Thinking of this, a new sense of expectation for future life arises spontaneously.