The Female Partner Refuses To Be Cannon Fodder

Latest website: Jiang Chan sighed, knowing where Lin Hanyan's paranoia is: "But he is a person, not an object. If you have a pathological possessiveness, the result will only push him further. ."

"So I don't dare to get close again. The two loves in my last life exhausted me." Lin Hanyan hugged her knees, intending to curl herself up.

"I devote myself wholeheartedly to every relationship. I regard him as everything to me. However, we will inevitably have quarrels. Whenever we quarrel, I will take the initiative to apologize, but in the end they still have to break up with me. This is endless. I can't bear the torture."

"I know, I know, no one in this world knows you better than I do." Jiang Chan knows all Lin Hanyan's memories, so no one in this world really knows Lin Hanyan better than her.

"Little Cicada, am I sick?" Lin Hanyan asked after a long silence.

Jiang Chan frowned: "You are not sick, you are just insecure. Because you have not received the love of your father and mother since you were a child, you have been in this insecure environment for a long time, and you desperately want to catch everyone around you. People, you just used the wrong way."

"Sometimes, if you want to get more, you have to know to let go. The tighter you hold, the more you will lose."

"I can't let go. I'm worried that if I let go, he will leave without looking back." Lin Hanyan hesitated: "I love him so much, why can't he keep a distance from other girls for me?"

"What is your so-called yardstick for keeping distance?" Jiang Chan asked back: "It's just that he shouldn't say a word with the opposite sex? How could it be possible? People have a foothold in society and always deal with all kinds of people. A person who doesn't say a word to the opposite **** is not a promising person."

Seeing that Lin Hanyan remained silent for a long time without speaking, Jiang Chan said again: "Yanyan, I am not accusing you, but sometimes I want to compare my heart. If one day you have a boyfriend, you will work as a fashion designer. You will inevitably come into contact with the opposite sex. If he asks you not to say a word with others, he always takes urgent measures to target you. Can you bear this?"

Lin Hanyan shook his head: "Maybe I can accept it at first, thinking it is his love for me, but after a long time, I feel that it won't work anymore, and I feel constrained."

"So, you all feel this way, and others will naturally have it. The bond that maintains the relationship between the two is love, and love is not a bondage, it should make you better."

"A good love should allow you to walk out of the pain in the past and make you a better person. If there is a person who makes you unhappy, makes you depressed or crazy, then he is destined to not be a good person. Lover."

"So, Yanyan, don't be afraid. If you really like him, accept him bravely. No matter what, I will always be here." Jiang Chan finally encouraged, "If you don't try it, you will never know what it is. The talent is the right person for you."

"I'm still worried," Lin Hanyan bit her lip: "I always have to go back to China in the future. If I talk about a foreign boyfriend, what if he insists on staying here? In the end, I have to break up."

"I know, I know you want the long-term." Jiang Chan soothed her: "But these are your thoughts. If you don't ask them, you will never know whether the other person's thoughts are? Maybe the result will disappoint you, you If you don't even have the courage to try, is it too cowardly?"

"Little cicada, will you always be there?" After thinking for a long time, Lin Hanyan suddenly asked.

Jiang Chan was stunned: "As long as you need me, I will always be there. We have been getting along for several years. If I just leave you behind, I will not rest assured, I will always see you live a happy life and be happy forever. I can leave with Heshun."

With that said, Jiang Chan has been prepared to accompany Lin Hanyan all his life. This girl is really too fragile. She really doesn't know what she will do if she leaves rashly.

"That's good, that's good." Lin Hanyan patted his heart: "If I am doing something wrong in the future, you have to tell me more, Xiaochan. I don't know what's going on. As soon as I talk to you, mine I feel much calmer."

"If there is something wrong with you, I will definitely point it out." Jiang Chan said lightly, "I will always be there, unless one day you truly become independent."

When Lin Hanyan's problem grows bigger, it is said that there is a psychological problem, and when it is smaller, it is caused by the harm caused by the original family, which made her feel insecure.

Jiang Chan once read this sentence, some people use their childhood to heal their lives, while some people use their lives to heal their childhood. Lin Hanyan happens to be the latter.

Growing up in an environment lacking love, no one taught her how to love. She was like a child. When she met someone she liked, she was like possessing a doll and wanted to hold the other person firmly in the palm of her hand.

After a long time, the other party is tired, and the other is tired. The two sides will inevitably have a dispute. After the dispute, reconcile, quarrel, etc., each other is caught in a vicious circle.

Sometimes in order to keep the other party, or to determine one's own position in the other party's heart, it is inevitable to make some radical actions. After the initial dispute, it may be just a text message bombardment or a series of deadly calls, but it will worsen later, such as self-harm or suicide.

Lin Hanyan died after taking a lot of sleeping pills in her last life~www.wuxiamtl.com~ Thinking of the end of her last life, Jiang Chan sighed. So, what's so good about love? It's better to be free and alone like her.

But she and Lin Hanyan are fundamentally different. She has a strong heart and love is not that attractive to her. But Lin Hanyan is different. She lacks love. Her inner appeal is that someone truly loves her, cares for her, and heals her inner pain.

When Lin Hanyan was asleep, Jiang Chan sighed. Sometimes it really feels unfair. Parents are the only professions that can take up their jobs without taking any certificates. Their right to come to this world is not determined by themselves, but by their parents.

Birth without raising is not too irresponsible. An Weike and Lin Danqiu were the culprits that caused Lin Hanyan's current psychological state. But there is no way. Since the original family cannot be changed, then all Lin Hanyan can do is change himself.

"Good morning, Little Cicada." Perhaps Jiang Chan's enlightenment was effective. When Lin Hanyan got up the next day, Lin Hanyan was in good spirits and was full of energy.

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