Chapter 329 Mystery of life experience

   As for the excuse of being away from home for several years, Su Jingchen had already thought of it.

  After hearing Su Jingchen's excuse, Yu Xiaolian felt that Su Jingchen was really trying his best.

  Because Su Jingchen planned to lie to his father, saying that his old illness had relapsed, and it was getting worse day by day, that he might die soon. In order to survive, he planned to go to the Western Regions to find a bell doctor who was good at asthma.

  Yu Xiaolian, the ancient bell doctor, knew it. Ling doctor was a folk doctor who wandered around the rivers and lakes.

In ancient times, there were some doctors, when they went out to see a doctor, they often carried a medicine box and hand-operated string bells, and ran for years in the streets and alleys to help those sick patients. When people heard the sound of the bell, they knew it was The doctor came, so he was called Doctor Ling.

Or in modern times, Ling doctors practiced medicine without a license, but in ancient times it was the opposite. Some doctors with superb medical skills would not be content with one side, they would choose to travel around alone, whether you say he is for fame, yes Whether it is hanging pots to help the world, in short, the masters are among the people.

  Besides the reason for the long trip, Su Jingchen lied about the benefit of the relapse of the old disease, and there is another one.

   That is to let Su Dafu know that his son is a sick child. It is good that Yu Xiaolian didn't dislike his son. How could he still have the face to pick and choose and dislike him?

   In the following period of time, Su Jingchen also used actions to verify that his approach was correct.

  Since Su Jingchen began to cough a few times from time to time, Su Dafu panicked.

   Originally, he wanted to delay the engagement of Su Jingchen and Yu Xiaolian, but now he will not delay it.

  Not only did he not procrastinate, he also quickly prepared the dowry gift, drew up the marriage letter and gift list, and personally took the matchmaker to Yu's house to propose marriage for his son Su Jingchen.

  Even though Yu Changhe was reluctant, he couldn't hold back his daughter's willingness, so he had to accept the gift from Su Dafu, and exchanged marriage certificates with Su Dafu, and the birthdays of the two children.

  Yu Changhe let Su Dafu know that it is best to set the engagement at the end of summer, and let him choose later when he chooses a date.

  Su Dafu was afraid that the Yu family would find out that his son was a sick child and resign, so he chose the tenth day of May regardless of Yu Changhe's opinion.

  After Yu Changhe found out, he was very angry.

  Which family is engaged in May? May is a poisonous month, it can be said that everything is inappropriate.

  Yu Changhe unceremoniously asked someone to pass the news to Su Dafu, telling him that it would not work in May, or it would be the end of April or the beginning of June.

  Su Dafu was eager to move forward, so he happily changed the date of engagement to the end of April.

   And before Yu Changhe objected, he had sent out invitations and advertised them widely.

  Yu Xiaolian was also taken aback when she knew that she would be engaged in more than 20 days.

   On the contrary, Su Jingchen was very calm, everything was within his expectation.

  Recently, Su Jingchen has been very adept at pretending to be sick, often in front of Su Dafu, his face would turn pale from panting.

  Frightened Su Dafu was afraid that his son would die so young, and he could rely on this son for the rest of his life's prosperity and wealth.

  Seeing that Su Jingchen became weaker day by day, Su Dafu sighed sadly. This child was born weak, which probably has a lot to do with Zheng's drowning in the cold water pool.

   It's just that, seeing that the child's health has improved in the past two years, why did he relapse again?

  While Zhang Luo engaged Su Jingchen, Su Dafu also secretly invited many famous doctors in Los Angeles for Su Jingchen, but those doctors were helpless, and suggested that they should seek help from Doctor Ling who specializes in asthma in the Western Regions.

  Su Dafu immediately scolded those vain doctors.

  Who doesn’t know that the air in the Western Regions is thin, and with his son’s physique of taking one step and panting for three steps, it’s hard to belch before seeing Doctor Ling.

   No, this can’t go on like this, Su Dafu hurried back to the study.

  Just picked up the pen, he hesitated again.

   No, you can't let that person know the truth.

  Su Dafu's heart was full of twists and turns, and finally he tried his best, threw the brush to the ground, and let out a long sigh.

   This son was brought up by him and is his.

  Since Mrs. Zheng didn't tell the truth to the child before he died, because he didn't want the child to have anything to do with that person again, let him take this secret into the coffin.

   In the blink of an eye, it came to April 28th, the day when Yu Xiaolian and Su Jingchen got engaged.

  Yu Xiaolian can be considered to have truly seen the ancient process of getting married.

   There are six main procedures for deciding a marriage, namely, accepting, asking for a name, Najib, accepting a request, asking for a date, and welcoming in person.

  During this period, there will also be three books interspersed, which are appointment letter, ceremony letter, and wedding letter, which are used at different stages of engagement.

  In the three books, the appointment letter is the engagement letter, which means that the man and the woman have entered into a marriage contract, and it is used when Najib.

  The book of rites is a list of gifts, which lists the number and quantity of the man's gifts, and is used when collecting.

  The letter of welcoming relatives is our modern marriage certificate, which is used when welcoming in person.

  The other six processes are like this, Nacai, is to come to propose marriage.

  In ancient times, most of the women stayed in the boudoir, and they didn't leave the door without leaving the second door. The main reason was that the man took the initiative to inquire, and if there was a girl he liked, he would prepare a meeting ceremony and hire a matchmaker to come to the door to propose marriage.

  Ask for a name is to ask for a name.

  In ancient times, the restrictions on women were relatively strict, and women would not be allowed to show their faces, so men did not know the woman's name, and what's more, they asked the horoscope of the birth date, and compared the horoscope of the birth date to see if they matched each other.

  Naji, it is to send some small gifts to express the willingness to decide on the marriage. This link is usually decided after the man checks his birthday.

  Nazheng is the dowry gift.

  After the parents of both men and women agree, the man will send the bride price to the woman's family, expressing his determination to marry his daughter as his wife.

  The date of application is to ask for the date of marriage. Generally, the parents of the man calculate the auspicious day of the zodiac, and then seek the consent of the parents of the woman. After agreeing, they marry according to the date.

  The last link is the personal welcome. This is the link of marrying the bride, which can be regarded as a formal marriage. This link can be said to be very grand, and etiquette must be paid attention to in all aspects.

  So, although it is an engagement, the date of marriage has also been set.

  Because Su Dafu was afraid that the duck in his beak would fly away, the wedding was set for one year later, after Yu Xiaolian and Ji, they got married.

Regarding this date, everyone has no objection, because except for Su Dafu, everyone else knows that Yu Xiaolian and Su Jingchen plan to travel far away, and they may not come back within a few years, so no matter how close the wedding date is, it will be held. No, it's all empty talk.

  After Yu Changhe knew that Su Jingchen planned to go to the Western Regions with Yu Xiaolian, he had already talked to Su Jingchen, and the Weng and his son-in-law had made a deal, which was a gentleman's agreement between the two of them.

  The matter of getting married seems to be complicated, but it seems to have nothing to do with Yu Xiaolian. There is nothing that she needs to do by herself, and in terms of etiquette, the two parties to the marriage do not even need to meet.

  So, even though it was an engagement, Yu Xiaolian was really supposed to do what she was supposed to do. It was her father who made the wedding banquet for Zhang Luo.

   It was her mother who checked the gift list.

  (end of this chapter)

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