After listening to the girl's words, Zhao Mingyang got up and walked to the audience, walked up to the two boys in the back row and said, "I hate these two boys, they keep whispering and laughing from time to time, because they affect The rest of the people listened, such as the people around him who were listening, so I hated these two classmates.

But the two of them are me in a certain period. I hate them, and I also hate me in that period. I have learned to reflect on myself, and I believe that they can do it too.

I hate the student thinking of many people here, because I have lived like you, I am your pioneer, and I will share with you what I have experienced.

I used to have blind self-confidence, I used to be ignorant, I used to have a narrow mind to speculate on others, I also hated the smell of copper and people who are better than me, why?Because I live in self-knowledge.

I also hope that you will not be like me. This world is cruel. I would like to ask the people here, who of you did not rely on your parents' money to study here for four years?Don't say that parents should do this, all of you here have passed the age of compulsory education.

Have you ever thought that it is time for you to consider raising your parents, what kind of pension you are going to take for retirement, I am not telling you to think that being rich means being a grandpa, but you also need to have an understanding that money can solve most of your problems.

For example, medical care, education, elderly care, improvement of living environment, and improvement of quality of life. How many of your parents here have taken a plane and can travel every year. Even if there are some, your parents have wealth and rights early on, but you are Do you just want to inherit everything from your parents or do you want to do better than your parents?

You are about to enter the society. First of all, you have to abandon a concept. I am a college student and I am better than you. This view is wrong, because society often pays attention to comprehensive strength.

You also must not use your own cognition to judge other people, because your cognition may be what you think is very powerful. Let's put it this way, this female classmate, when you questioned me, did you fall into the You are moved by yourself, you feel that when you stand up, you are the only one who is drunk and the only one who is awake.

You think you are different, and you still expect me to be unable to step down, and even the audience cheers for you, but have you ever thought about it? I also graduated from this school. I have experienced and learned everything you have experienced. You How old are you this year? "

The topic turned back to the girl who asked the question. There were a lot of excuses in front of me, including the previous answers. In fact, none of them answered what the girl wanted to know. Are you bragging, and Zhao Mingyang directly played Tai Chi into several questions, and started repeatedly. Ask the girl.

Many people say that celebrities, entrepreneurs, and celebrities all answer Tai Chi, and in the end they seem to have no answer at all. In fact, the problem lies with the questioner, because the question asked by the questioner is a question that the person being asked does not want to answer. Answering the question comes at a high cost.

For example, if you ask a star what he thinks of another star’s work, if the other star’s work is bad, it’s not okay to praise it hard, let alone belittle it. This girl, why on earth is she asking such a question?

Without any purpose?Zhao Mingyang didn't believe it. Zhao Mingyang guessed with a high probability that this girl was a self-media worker, and she might write some content to arouse Zhao Mingyang's anger to gain traffic and the like.

The girl looked at Zhao Mingyang and said, "I am a senior this year."

Zhao Mingyang nodded and looked at the girl and said, "I'm a senior, and I'm about to graduate. When I was your age, I didn't think about things like you. I'm from an average family. I'm more realistic. What I thought about was me. How to make more money so that my parents can live a better life.

For example, I set a few goals for myself, which must be completed within three years. The first is to pay off all the debts of the family. The second is to change my parents to a better house. The third is to buy a car for my parents. , I finished it two years after graduation. If you don’t believe what I said, the premise is that you think it’s impossible.

But you have to know that many entrepreneurs are much better than me. They can achieve my goals in college, and their annual salary will be one million after graduation. I had no other ideas at that time. part of the crowd

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After I graduated, many people around me would ask me which school I graduated from. When I mentioned the school, how many people I saw had the frivolous expression on their faces that couldn't be concealed?It seems to be talking about this school?

I swore secretly at that time that I would let my school speak out in the future, and I would never be treated with such an expression again. It was not for me, because I don’t care about these anymore. I can go to a world famous school and talk about those in the future I graduated from school, but I don't want to do that. Wherever I go, I always say that I graduated from the School of Finance and Business.

Why?Because I know a lot of our seniors and sisters, including Principal Qi Changan and my senior brother, because they are all working hard for our alma mater, and I feel the benefits of their dedication. For example, most people know that our school is already very good. Yes, many jobs were offered to me by the school back then.

I also want to make our alma mater better and become a world-class university like Senior Brother Qi Changan and the others. In the future, every child who goes out from here will be highly praised by others, and there will be more students who go out. Opportunity, every student who graduates from here will be proud of graduating here.

Maybe you think I am whimsical, but I can't, there are you, there are thousands of juniors and juniors, I hope we all work hard together, and one day, our school will be a world-class university. "

The audience became very quiet, and then there was thunderous applause. Zhao Mingyang's speech made everyone present excited. No one cared about the girl's problems at all. up.

Many students complained about the girl who asked the question in the WeChat group. The girl was speechless by Zhao Mingyang's speech instead of answering it. , surrounded by unfriendly eyes, she was afraid, she even started to reflect on what Zhao Mingyang said.

Zhao Mingyang can be completely direct, but Zhao Mingyang didn't directly. If it was like this on the Internet, Zhao Mingyang might be direct, and the other party was irritable and did not have a dirty word.

For example, Zhao Mingyang replied to the other party: Your phenomenon can be attributed to your childhood education mistakes. Your parents mistakenly believed that the insulting and suppressing education could make their children progress. Unexpectedly, because of their education mistakes, it was buried in your heart. A seed of inferiority and deformity was planted.Perhaps this is also caused by your parents' previous education methods, and you can't blame them. It may be that your ancestors' education had problems, which made your family fall into this deformed vicious circle.

You have grown up in this way of education for a long time, and when you grow up, you like to use the way of suppressing and humiliating others to obtain a sense of deformed inferiority complex. This is an external manifestation of abnormal inferiority complex, and it is also a way of life. An unsatisfactory portrayal, but also a tragic embodiment of the lack of proper education, ultimately leads to your need to release and obtain happiness in this way.

If I can make you happy by commenting like this, I will be happy to help others. I hope you don’t let your tragedy happen to your children and grandchildren, and don’t hate your family. After all, they are also tragic lives. Promise me, thousand Don't let your family's deformed inferiority complex be passed on from generation to generation. It's good to stop changing from your generation.

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You see, judging a person in this way is more angry and unacceptable than scolding a person directly. If you do not use dirty words, you must try your best to attack the other party mentally. This involves the other party's family education, growth environment, and family status. The other party's family is said to be deformed, has low self-esteem, is also very gloomy, and has lived an unsatisfactory life, commonly known as ancestral grave-planing spraying.

But for Zhao Mingyang to scold the other party like this in front of so many people, it's inappropriate, unseemly, and unreasonable.

It's better to create hatred for the other party in a disguised form, which makes her more uncomfortable than slapping her. She will be talked about by her classmates, her juniors, her teachers, and even after graduation.

"If the classmate has no questions, the next classmate will ask questions." Zhao Mingyang smiled, and then handed the girl's microphone to the two boys whom he had talked about before, asking very random questions. .

The two boys stared at each other, why did this suddenly come to their attention?

asked?

All the attention of the audience was on them, and they didn't know what to ask at this time, because they were afraid of being laughed at by asking childish questions, but they couldn't think of what to ask?

"I'll give you three minutes to think." After Zhao Mingyang finished speaking, he walked back to the podium, picked up a bottle of pure water and took a few sips.

The two boys exchanged briefly, and then asked the surrounding students what they wanted to ask.

This phenomenon made many people at the scene feel very real, especially the scene where the two boys were communicating with a group of people. Everyone felt that Zhao Mingyang was very real.

This kind of random questioning made everyone present feel that everyone had a chance to be asked, so everyone listened very carefully, fearing that Zhao Mingyang would call them by name.

After waiting for a while, the tall boy among the two boys looked at Zhao Mingyang with a microphone and asked, "Senior Mingyang, we would like to ask you a question. We are all freshmen who are studying international trade. In one piece, what we want to ask is, in the next few years, what will be the direction of the domestic economy and the foreign economy, what changes will occur, and how we should prevent it.”

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